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Habits of poverty
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Habits of poverty...
Don't know a single person who wants to be poor, unhappy, lonely or sick. But why many people have chosen this way of life.
I firmly believe in causality, so there are reasons why everything happens so.
Life is a thing with one side short and the other very long and many changes in any direction, it happens quite quickly. People really notice and remember only a sudden dramatic or bright positive events.
Looking at a successful person, it seems that he always has been.Completely unnoticed that he had no special profit worked for several years, earning the name and the prestige, in the difficult periods was supporting myself and did not give up. And every day was gradually evolved, constantly growing and becoming better, stronger and smarter than you were yesterday.
But life is full of events, Affairs, relations, we rarely notice slow changes. Their own and others. Always think...How did it happen? Was an ordinary person, but here...Probably so. And we also want to be successful, wealthy and respected...
BUT!
We also want "all at once" quickly! But nothing seems to work. So you don't start, you know how much there is to learn, to overcome, to survive... and it is long and hard.
And as a result we have: "fast out, slow and lazy." And often, from inability to notice small changes, the most bright beginnings rush before appear visible and clearly measurable result — that's how it was, and so began a year of work, for example.
Unfortunately, the lack of success is not the only consequences of this addiction is to notice changes. Just that you were young, it was basically fine. And suddenly you notice a shattered relationship, a sick body, a lack of implementation, lack of experiences, no income, etc.
One more habit interfering to improve their lives and start something new is a habit to live "poor" and suffer. From the crisis in the country, from snakes to politicians, from poor education in our country, from corruption, from the oligarchs, from bad weather, from lack of money, time... the list can be long.
What every person can be happy is recognized by all, but what I personally do in order to stay miserable, wants to see not everyone.
Even when the conditions of life sometimes become better people shamefully hiding the joy away from the public and thus do not allow themselves to fully enjoy the victories and achievements, quality of life. He still complains and whines, it is a habit, such as "all" are doing.
Well keep us in the tail is another habit - the FEAR of CHANGE.
How many professionals he gave to achieve more, how many people failed to change unsatisfactory relationships to other, more comfortable?
Favorite question — WHAT to DO?
In psychology, sistemafgc 21-40-90.
Decipher: 21 days a new habit for 40 day destroyed neural connections fueling the old behavior and after 90 days new actions are firmly rooted in life. Then the action moves to the machine, which is called "habit". Only now it can be what you need beneficial to body, mind or soul.
New habits gradually become part of the individual, which greatly affects the environment. Changing life.So, what to do? To notice in yourself the habits of success and replace them with new, more beneficial. HOW?
Wrong: "I refuse... "
That's right: "instead, I am now going to do it..."
Old habits are hard to break, so it is important to understand aboutthat at all, any change takes time. Sometimes they may even return in some stressful situations, but to overcome it will be much easier, if you do not run the same old formula "21-40-90".
And in order to hands had not gone in the first place necessary to get these good habits, how to notice even the most insignificant results, set achievable goals and celebrate their achievement. But how to do it, then let them work your imagination. Success! published
Author: Olga Ilchenko
P. S. And remember, just changing your mind — together we change the world! ©
Source: www.b17.ru/article/70914/
Don't know a single person who wants to be poor, unhappy, lonely or sick. But why many people have chosen this way of life.
I firmly believe in causality, so there are reasons why everything happens so.
Life is a thing with one side short and the other very long and many changes in any direction, it happens quite quickly. People really notice and remember only a sudden dramatic or bright positive events.
Looking at a successful person, it seems that he always has been.Completely unnoticed that he had no special profit worked for several years, earning the name and the prestige, in the difficult periods was supporting myself and did not give up. And every day was gradually evolved, constantly growing and becoming better, stronger and smarter than you were yesterday.
But life is full of events, Affairs, relations, we rarely notice slow changes. Their own and others. Always think...How did it happen? Was an ordinary person, but here...Probably so. And we also want to be successful, wealthy and respected...
BUT!
We also want "all at once" quickly! But nothing seems to work. So you don't start, you know how much there is to learn, to overcome, to survive... and it is long and hard.
And as a result we have: "fast out, slow and lazy." And often, from inability to notice small changes, the most bright beginnings rush before appear visible and clearly measurable result — that's how it was, and so began a year of work, for example.
Unfortunately, the lack of success is not the only consequences of this addiction is to notice changes. Just that you were young, it was basically fine. And suddenly you notice a shattered relationship, a sick body, a lack of implementation, lack of experiences, no income, etc.
One more habit interfering to improve their lives and start something new is a habit to live "poor" and suffer. From the crisis in the country, from snakes to politicians, from poor education in our country, from corruption, from the oligarchs, from bad weather, from lack of money, time... the list can be long.
What every person can be happy is recognized by all, but what I personally do in order to stay miserable, wants to see not everyone.
Even when the conditions of life sometimes become better people shamefully hiding the joy away from the public and thus do not allow themselves to fully enjoy the victories and achievements, quality of life. He still complains and whines, it is a habit, such as "all" are doing.
Well keep us in the tail is another habit - the FEAR of CHANGE.
How many professionals he gave to achieve more, how many people failed to change unsatisfactory relationships to other, more comfortable?
Favorite question — WHAT to DO?
In psychology, sistemafgc 21-40-90.
Decipher: 21 days a new habit for 40 day destroyed neural connections fueling the old behavior and after 90 days new actions are firmly rooted in life. Then the action moves to the machine, which is called "habit". Only now it can be what you need beneficial to body, mind or soul.
New habits gradually become part of the individual, which greatly affects the environment. Changing life.So, what to do? To notice in yourself the habits of success and replace them with new, more beneficial. HOW?
Wrong: "I refuse... "
That's right: "instead, I am now going to do it..."
Old habits are hard to break, so it is important to understand aboutthat at all, any change takes time. Sometimes they may even return in some stressful situations, but to overcome it will be much easier, if you do not run the same old formula "21-40-90".
And in order to hands had not gone in the first place necessary to get these good habits, how to notice even the most insignificant results, set achievable goals and celebrate their achievement. But how to do it, then let them work your imagination. Success! published
Author: Olga Ilchenko
P. S. And remember, just changing your mind — together we change the world! ©
Source: www.b17.ru/article/70914/
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