Not "for" him but "with" him... Bashny.Net

...When we decide to do something with another person – something important, like sex, or less important, like walking around the square (and perhaps, as important as walk around the square, and not so insignificant as sex), we must realize that this is a voluntary decision, conceived as a joint action with another man, but not "for" him but "with" him.

It is important to begin to realize that our relationship with the world, with others, with loved ones in reality are the actions of "with" them.

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And that this solution is Autonomous and depends on our free choice.

What I'm not doing anything for the sake of another and therefore he don't owe me anything.

He does nothing for me and therefore I owe him nothing.

We're just doing some things together. And happy with that.

In this case I don't get dependent on it and will try to call her to him.

I will not drop my dignity, trying to make him afraid.

I refuse the need to call it hatred.

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Once you meet someone...Suddenly comes, when you don't expect, an amazing person...

I reject the attitude of a victim that he has never been sorry for me.

I'm not going to try to become indispensable to him.

I'll settle for his love or dislike.

However, if he doesn't love me, if not worried about me, there will always be someone able to love me.published  

 

Author: Jorge Bucay

 

P. S. And remember, only by changing their consumption — together we change the world! ©

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