The role of the father in a child's life

Now fashion has become quite an involved father in the life of a newborn baby. And this is a very good beginning, as in all times, the father was no less a significant figure in the fate and life of the child than the mother. That is why women must encourage the communication of the Pope with a son or daughter.


For years, scientists and ordinary people have wondered: does it matter psychologically, it is the communion of the father with his child? All came to the same conclusion: Yes, it is. It is proved that on the basis of their relationship with the father in the future she will be as an adult to choose a life partner. Not for nothing there are people in the belief that a daughter chooses a husband like her father. Based on your experience with dad, the girl will be in my head the scheme and the nuances of relations between the two sexes. And if the father is authoritarian, crude, and even cruel, then it is likely that in the future husband of his daughter will also play rough with his newly-minted wife. And the woman endure it because since childhood in his family she had seen such attitude.


The boy also needed attention and adequate attitude on the part of the father. Often dads require a lot more sons than daughters according to the principle "he's the next man and so he should be strong, hardy". The power, the strength and endurance of course important factors for the future of the man, but he is not less a female needs approval and support from the father. And if the father is too picky, then born soft-hearted boy could become even more weak, insecure, introverted.


It is important to remember that in the process of education should adhere to the Golden mean. And often it is better to show kindness and understanding than to punish and scold. Because everything in childhood will affect the rest of a person's life.

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