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10 things you should teach your daughter
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Our society is far from ideal. The role of women in society is constantly being reinvented – from domestic foundations to rabid feminism. How to keep a middle ground and help the girl to become happy, to accept his nature and to confront the sexism?
You can be anything you want! A time when the legal profession or mechanics was the prerogative of men long gone. So try not to impress upon your daughter the type: "a Girl should not climb trees" or "girls don't need math". No "male" or "female" professions – there is a case, which is the soul, and matter, which is not like.
You don't have...
The stereotype that a girl must be "all" broke is not one of the female fate. To marry "because the time has come" to give birth to a child to "be like everyone else" – all this only hinders happiness. Try to give your daughter the freedom of choice, where possible, will teach her to listen to his own desires.
The gloss is not the whole truth of life
Perfect body movie, perfect career and family – it's the glossy half-truths, which intoxicates not a simpleton. Try to explain to my daughter that behind any success, even if it seems so simple, lies the long path, which has and work up a sweat, mistakes and tears. If your girl is an idol, actress or singer, find information about what is the price of success.
Tales live in cartoons
The myth that by marrying, "they lived happily ever after", leads many girls to lose in his personal life, because the relationship is something you may want to work all the time, family happiness and eternal love does not fall from the sky. Try for example your relationship with your husband or relations of celebrities to show how important it is not to wait for the perfect Prince, but to build happiness with a real man.
Female solidarity is a great thing!
Alas, women are harder to meet a real friend – just because we often see people of your gender are not allies, and rivals. Try to criticize less when the girl's hair, style or appearance of familiar women. Focus on what you are delighted that you have a good friend you are – like sisters.
Your body belongs only to you!
We often forget that when forced the girl to have long hair, and she wants to have a short haircut. When we forbid people to wear the things she likes, forcing her choice. Maybe that's why a lot of girls grows up with the feeling that they are not the mistress of my body, and once married, "renting it" to their husbands? It is important to make clear to the daughter that to produce any manipulations with her body only with her consent. Perhaps this will save her from sexual aggression.
No sports "for girls" and sports "for boys"
Yes, there are some physiological differences between the female and male body, but, for example, the same Boxing and bodybuilding has long ceased to be exclusively male sports. If your girl wants to do it them there is nothing strange or scary. Keep it up desire for sporting success and a healthy lifestyle, regardless of whether you like the sport or not.
You can be mother when it wants to
How much we were talking about the biological clock, which "ticks" and time is running out, the birth of a child should be a welcome development. She must consciously choose the man would like to have a child and not rush him to start to marry anybody.
You can not become mother, if such is your desire
In the modern world, procreation is not a prerequisite for female happiness. How many children suffers from the fact that they gave birth not because of the desire to become parents, but because "as necessary"! Show the girl that the reluctance to have a child is kind of the norm, not pathology. The girl is free to choose, that would be about it, no thought surrounding.
Being a woman is great!
Yes, you have to show that women's share – heavy cross, not the suffering and sacrifice. To be a woman in today's world is extremely interesting and exciting, because before a young girl open so many new possibilities. Who never dreamed of her grandmother! published
P. S. And remember, just changing your mind — together we change the world! ©
Source: deti.goodhouse.com.ua
You can be anything you want! A time when the legal profession or mechanics was the prerogative of men long gone. So try not to impress upon your daughter the type: "a Girl should not climb trees" or "girls don't need math". No "male" or "female" professions – there is a case, which is the soul, and matter, which is not like.
You don't have...
The stereotype that a girl must be "all" broke is not one of the female fate. To marry "because the time has come" to give birth to a child to "be like everyone else" – all this only hinders happiness. Try to give your daughter the freedom of choice, where possible, will teach her to listen to his own desires.
The gloss is not the whole truth of life
Perfect body movie, perfect career and family – it's the glossy half-truths, which intoxicates not a simpleton. Try to explain to my daughter that behind any success, even if it seems so simple, lies the long path, which has and work up a sweat, mistakes and tears. If your girl is an idol, actress or singer, find information about what is the price of success.
Tales live in cartoons
The myth that by marrying, "they lived happily ever after", leads many girls to lose in his personal life, because the relationship is something you may want to work all the time, family happiness and eternal love does not fall from the sky. Try for example your relationship with your husband or relations of celebrities to show how important it is not to wait for the perfect Prince, but to build happiness with a real man.
Female solidarity is a great thing!
Alas, women are harder to meet a real friend – just because we often see people of your gender are not allies, and rivals. Try to criticize less when the girl's hair, style or appearance of familiar women. Focus on what you are delighted that you have a good friend you are – like sisters.
Your body belongs only to you!
We often forget that when forced the girl to have long hair, and she wants to have a short haircut. When we forbid people to wear the things she likes, forcing her choice. Maybe that's why a lot of girls grows up with the feeling that they are not the mistress of my body, and once married, "renting it" to their husbands? It is important to make clear to the daughter that to produce any manipulations with her body only with her consent. Perhaps this will save her from sexual aggression.
No sports "for girls" and sports "for boys"
Yes, there are some physiological differences between the female and male body, but, for example, the same Boxing and bodybuilding has long ceased to be exclusively male sports. If your girl wants to do it them there is nothing strange or scary. Keep it up desire for sporting success and a healthy lifestyle, regardless of whether you like the sport or not.
You can be mother when it wants to
How much we were talking about the biological clock, which "ticks" and time is running out, the birth of a child should be a welcome development. She must consciously choose the man would like to have a child and not rush him to start to marry anybody.
You can not become mother, if such is your desire
In the modern world, procreation is not a prerequisite for female happiness. How many children suffers from the fact that they gave birth not because of the desire to become parents, but because "as necessary"! Show the girl that the reluctance to have a child is kind of the norm, not pathology. The girl is free to choose, that would be about it, no thought surrounding.
Being a woman is great!
Yes, you have to show that women's share – heavy cross, not the suffering and sacrifice. To be a woman in today's world is extremely interesting and exciting, because before a young girl open so many new possibilities. Who never dreamed of her grandmother! published
P. S. And remember, just changing your mind — together we change the world! ©
Source: deti.goodhouse.com.ua
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