37 very important lessons in 37 years

Youth is a wonderful time of life. It seems to us that all the best ahead, and life will open before us a door, leading to the well-being, happiness and prosperity. However, approaching age 37 years, we understand that we are in the middle of the way and it's time to draw some conclusions from the past years to further not to regret the past years.

That is exactly what happened with dawn Gluskin Dawn Gluskin, a famous psychologist from USA. Celebrating his 37th birthday, she wondered what she was taught those years.



 

1. Happiness inside. We spend too much time looking for approval and comfort. And always it turns out that there are not looking. Look inside yourself.

2. Be thankful for everything. For good, for bad, for horrible. Life itself is a priceless gift. But pleasure and pain is a part of our journey.

3. Change the perception and your life will change. When you feel fear, anger, resentment, just look at the situation from a different angle.

4. It is impossible to make everybody happy, staying true to yourself. But it's better to risk and be misunderstood than to be loved, but pretending to be someone you're not really.

5. The world around you is a mirror. What we love in others is a reflection of what we love in ourselves. What upsets us in others is an indicator of what we need to pay attention to themselves.

6.Every person appears in our life with a purpose. And we already decide to learn on the lessons that he teaches us or not. Worse than his role in our lives, the more serious lesson.

7. Believe. Just know that in hard times, the universe fills in the back, and everything will be fine.

8.Do not take everything too close to heart. The actions of others is a reflection of what is happening in their personal lives. And generally to you it is irrelevant.

9. Nature cures. Walk in the fresh air and view the beautiful scenery is an amazing way to clear your head of unnecessary thoughts, to revive and lift the spirits.

10. Offended people offend people. And still love them. Although no one forbids you to love them from a distance.

11. To heal, need to feel it. Put your fears and weaknesses right in front of you and send them a bright beam of light, because the only way to get rid of them is go through them. Watch the truth hurts. But I swear, in the future, it is really worth it.

12. Perfectionism is an illusion. Most, I must say, painful. Relax. Strive for perfection, but allow yourself to make mistakes and be happy regardless of the outcome.

13. Remove the blinders. Don't concentrate solely on their own goals and desires. You risk missing the beauty of this life and people around you. The world is amazing when you go at him with eyes wide open.

14. Celebrate your wins. Savor every, even the smallest success.

15. Learn to forgive. First and foremost you need it, not those who offended you. Forgive, you find peace and freedom you deserve. Forgive easily and quickly.

16. We all have incredible intuition. If you stop, stop and listen, you can hear the voice of your inner wisdom. Listen to the quiet whispers of your heart. It knows the way.

17. Let your soul sing! Be true. On Earth there is none like you. Be sincere, live and breathe a full breast, moving towards your goals.

18. We are all creators. Seriously! With due perseverance, concentration and perseverance, everything is possible. Keep this in mind.

19. I radiate light. You radiate light. We are all the light emitted. Some cast shadows on their own brightness. Be a beacon of light for others and shows them the way.

20. Don't take life too seriously! Anyway, no one leaves alive. Smile. Allow yourself to be silly. Enjoy the moment. Have fun.

21. Surround yourself with people who love you and support you. Themselves love and support them. Life is too short for anything less.

22. Whirl of life in the free dance. If you have a big dream, follow it with passion. But gently and at a certain distance, to be rather flexible and mobile, adapting to the changing pace of life.

23. The more you give the more you get. Share your wisdom, love, talent. Share easily. And you will see how much in this life is beautiful returns to you.

24. The main thing is not to give yourself completely. Because if the inner bowl is empty, it has no more to give. It is important to strike a balance.

25. Say "Yes!" to everything, why light up your eyes. Speak an irreconcilable "No" to all that does not interest you or that you have no time. Time is the most valuable resource that is not renewable. Spend it wisely.

26. Sometimes we pererastaet friendship. This does not mean that we or friends is bad. Simply our paths diverge. Save them in your heart, but if they start to hurt you or restrain, it's time to set the distance and release your friendship.

27. Fear is a very good indicator of what we really want and what we need in this life. Let him be your compass and enjoy the exciting adventures to which it leads you.

28. Overcoming our own fear is the most useful thing you can do for yourself. You thereby prove to themselves that can do everything. This is a super-generator of self-confidence.

29. Our body is a transport which takes us to our dream. Love it, think carefully and carefully, if you want to feel fresh and energetic. But never dwell. Appearance is subjective and eventually somehow changed. To feel comfortable in your own body — that's the main thing.

30. As often as possible tell and show loved ones how you love them. This does not happen too much. Your time, presence, love and sincere concern for them — the best gift.

31. Live in the present. It's the only thing we have now. Learn from the mistakes of the past and enjoy the memories but don't cling to them and don't let them haunt you. Dream about the future, but without fanaticism and obsession. Like the present.

32. Life is a series of UPS and downs. To unlock your full potential, we need both. Just hang on tight and enjoy the ride.

33. We are all one human family. None of us are better or worse than others. Just at some stage in life we know what to do. Next time it will be someone else.

34. Be thankful every day for what you have. So you create around themselves a space for even greater abundance, attracting happiness, love, health and prosperity.

35. You are not the center of the Universe. Although sometimes your ego makes you think so. Not worth it. Look at the world and the people around you, and you will learn a lot and beautiful.

36. The world needs more love, light and laughter.

37. You're your own guru. Most of my life we're told what to do, how to think, what is good and how to achieve success. Not worth all this unconditionally believe. Think for themselves. Break the foundations. As soon as you stop doing what is expected of you, and begin to follow your own intuition, you will feel ridiculously happy.published

 

P. S. And remember, just changing your mind — together we change the world! ©

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