If a friend behaves like an enemy Bashny.Net

Hate the enemy or the protection of personal boundaries.

We should live in peace and to be peace and goodness to people but if your personality of the border unceremoniously trampled upon, it is necessary to hit. From the peacefulness and humanity can be explained and to notify the caller about how to deal with you is not worth it. And even do it twice. If the attacker doesn't understand that “who to us with sword come, that perish by the sword”.

To talk with the offender about their interests – it is also to defend its borders. The choice of the method of conveying discontent over its actions depend on the level of someone trying to convey. Manipulation, psychological Aikido, direct verbal blow, clarification of motives, of physical response are just tools.



a scene from the movie "Kill bill"

In life to turn the other cheek is to become a victim. So, to make a normal person who made a mistake or didn't know what he was doing, the monster, through inaction. Often the level of human consciousness is such that only reactions of others, they realize that they do.

The person really makes the best of what is ready at the moment, and probably does unconsciously. But how should he know hurt if I didn't feel the pain in return? Not to fight is to deny yourself the right to protect its territory and not to give the opponent the opportunity to realize and grow personal and spiritually.

The enemy in this context it may be close person (spouse, friend, relative, etc.). Can you call people that appear in our lives in order to finally teach us to appreciate, to respect and to defend themselves, to overcome their injuries and be aware of their will and dignity, teachers, the essence will not change. No one has the right and preference to do you hurt, and worse, to do it consciously. If a friend behaves like an enemy, a friend?

Moreover, love is not a kasha-Malasha-gruel with unclear contours. It is quite effective a certain sense, which implies the preservation of the person of your integrity, mental, emotional, physical health, and even focused on it. With love, and you can hit (even the word), if it's the only way to show that people not on its territory goes.

It should also be borne in mind that the education and perception of life of different people. Do you believe in God, and someone believes in the Force, and to cry out to God with such a person is meaningless.

Hatred takes too much energy feeling, and after the defense, you can go to forgiveness and acceptance, but, in General, defend their interests to listen to the philosophy of LaVey.

“To love their enemies and do good to those who hate and use you — is this not the despicable philosophy of the Spaniel that rolls on his back when he was kicked out?

Hate your enemies with all your heart, and if someone slapped you on one cheek, SMASH the abuser in HIS other cheek! Crush the whole side of it, for self-preservation is the highest law!

To substitute other cheek is a cowardly dog!

Punch for punch, the fury of the wrath, death for death — and all this with the extraction of abundant benefits! An eye for an eye, a tooth for a tooth, and four times a hundred times! Become a Terror to the enemy and going on his way, he will gain enough experience over which should think. This will force you to respect yourself in all aspects of life and your spirit — an immortal spirit, your will to live not in an intangible Paradise, but in the brains and sinews of those whose respect you have done.” ©

P. S. This article is especially useful for those who are unable to defend themselves and their interests. If you need permission, let it be resolution.

P. P. S. I personally do not feel such strong emotions and needs in a hard defending. When it comes to confidence marking their borders comes naturally. published

Author: Lilia Ahremchik

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