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The syndrome of "the lost age"
Have you heard the one about the syndrome of the "lost age"? No? And very interesting, by the way. The lost age is the age from 50 to 70 years. And "lost" it is called because of this time in our lives would not exist.
The same does not exist for the simple reason that in this period we are first struggling to seem even younger, and then wistfully recognize themselves as already old. And the result is simply discarded from his life a huge chunk, which actually may be the best in our lives.
Some think that after 55 or 60 years about the fun of life can be safely forgotten.
Yes anything similar! The secret is simple.
Do not try after the age of 55 to live in 30 or 40 years. Instead, you need to afford to develop FURTHER.
We're not trying in 15 years to live in five or, say, a 30 like a 15. 15 don't play with dolls and toy soldiers, as five. And 30 do not listen to the music and admired a 15.
This does not mean, naturally, we get less fun. This means that we receive pleasure FROM the OTHER.
I have heard many times from different people about a curious phenomenon. Probably about 50-55, many have the feeling in life that something ended, and something else that was in this moment to begin, nevertheless, has not begun. Simply put, in life there is a sort break, a pause, which, sadly, can continue for a long, long time until his death.
What is there to say?
It's all in the order, friends, the whole thing in order! After 50 we normally set ourselves the goal to live not worse than before. Not worse than before, look no worse than before, working, earning no worse, no worse than the rest...
Well, is it any wonder that so many people sadly feel that after 50 their life seems to have stopped? How could it be otherwise, if all we're trying to do is to repeat ourselves?
Try to set a different goal — to live BETTER than before. To have life more fun. More fun, more interesting, to rest, to look better, stronger and brighter love. Try it — and you will immediately feel that life has meaning again.
That impossible? And why not, exactly?
While we think that after 50 years our personal development ends, while desperately trying to hold on to the past, to live like before, the thrill and joy can be forgotten.
Polite violence: I'm more IMPORTANT than YOU
When you're alone
The joy and pleasure of life after 55 you receive when you let go of the past and allow yourself to continue to live, to change, to evolve, to become the other, allowing yourself new Hobbies, new friends, new things, new — other! — enjoyment.
Even compared to our parents ' generation, we added an additional 25 years of active life! A quarter of a century! published
Author: Vladimir Yakovlev
P. S. And remember, only by changing their consumption — together we change the world! ©
Source: theageofhappiness.com/posts/sindrom-poteryannogo-vozrasta/neo9ugMvyg
The same does not exist for the simple reason that in this period we are first struggling to seem even younger, and then wistfully recognize themselves as already old. And the result is simply discarded from his life a huge chunk, which actually may be the best in our lives.
Some think that after 55 or 60 years about the fun of life can be safely forgotten.
Yes anything similar! The secret is simple.
Do not try after the age of 55 to live in 30 or 40 years. Instead, you need to afford to develop FURTHER.
We're not trying in 15 years to live in five or, say, a 30 like a 15. 15 don't play with dolls and toy soldiers, as five. And 30 do not listen to the music and admired a 15.
This does not mean, naturally, we get less fun. This means that we receive pleasure FROM the OTHER.
I have heard many times from different people about a curious phenomenon. Probably about 50-55, many have the feeling in life that something ended, and something else that was in this moment to begin, nevertheless, has not begun. Simply put, in life there is a sort break, a pause, which, sadly, can continue for a long, long time until his death.
What is there to say?
It's all in the order, friends, the whole thing in order! After 50 we normally set ourselves the goal to live not worse than before. Not worse than before, look no worse than before, working, earning no worse, no worse than the rest...
Well, is it any wonder that so many people sadly feel that after 50 their life seems to have stopped? How could it be otherwise, if all we're trying to do is to repeat ourselves?
Try to set a different goal — to live BETTER than before. To have life more fun. More fun, more interesting, to rest, to look better, stronger and brighter love. Try it — and you will immediately feel that life has meaning again.
That impossible? And why not, exactly?
While we think that after 50 years our personal development ends, while desperately trying to hold on to the past, to live like before, the thrill and joy can be forgotten.
Polite violence: I'm more IMPORTANT than YOU
When you're alone
The joy and pleasure of life after 55 you receive when you let go of the past and allow yourself to continue to live, to change, to evolve, to become the other, allowing yourself new Hobbies, new friends, new things, new — other! — enjoyment.
Even compared to our parents ' generation, we added an additional 25 years of active life! A quarter of a century! published
Author: Vladimir Yakovlev
P. S. And remember, only by changing their consumption — together we change the world! ©
Source: theageofhappiness.com/posts/sindrom-poteryannogo-vozrasta/neo9ugMvyg
