10 useful tips to parents how to protect the child from danger

Mom and Dad, I talk to you for three minutes, and it's very, very important.
During 2014-2015, I spent at least hundreds of safety training, a minimum of 2000-3000 children told me about how they think the offender and that they would do in case of danger.

I will share the conclusions based on accurate statistics:

9 out of 10 children
< 19 of 20 children At the same time 10 of the 10 primary school students are ready to be written in the "old" and forties. A seniors' need help ».

Approximately half of children 10-14 years old are confident that can easily recognize a criminal street (dressed in black, eerie, "strange looks" unnatural smiles slyly, lures sweet, untidy man, like a tramp or a criminal).

At least half of the children will run in case of danger to the staircase, somewhere, "where you can hide».

All the children feel that they can trust "familiar to adults', including neighbors, friends of parents - all the people, whom they had once seen

19 of 20 children
This is only part of a very grim statistics

This criminal -. not suspicious. B If ye all about n - not the most suspicious of passers-by. This is a polite, well-dressed man, perhaps a woman or a pretty neat little old man.

Our task - to make sure that our children do not succumb to provocations, not sat in someone else's car, we know how to react in case of danger, and most importantly - frankly told us about everything that happens to them beyond parental control borders.

Golden rules of safety Give positive instead of negative setup, raise self-esteem of the child Instead of "you get lost, you fool," say, "I trust you, you're doing great." Praised for detail. < Replace instruction and intimidation game.

How to answer the phone. What can I say, when the doorbell rang. How to answer "no». Let's find the safest places on the way to school. Show me where you run to, if to you will start to stick a stranger? How many of these people seem to you suspicious, and who, on the contrary, love and inspires confidence care, but also the ability to assess the world around us in terms of security. < Repeat, who of familiar adult you can trust.




Based on the book of the psychologist Leah Ball: "Stop threat. security Children »
"If you notice a suspicious person": a fatal mistake parents "
Photos on the preview: Olga Dimenshtein











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