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18 of the rules of modern etiquette
Politeness is not difficult to show - it's just a respect for self and others. But there are some nuances, which they know not all. Website gathered rules which may well make our lives more pleasant.
1. Never come to visit without a call.
If you visited without warning, can afford to be in a bathrobe and curlers. One British woman said that the appearance of the intruders, she always puts on shoes, a hat and take an umbrella. If a person is pleasant to her, she exclaims: "Ah, well, I just came!" If unpleasant, "Oh, what a pity, I have to go».
2. Umbrella never dried in the open state - either in the office or at a party.
It must be folded up and put on a special stand or hang.
3. The bag should not be placed on your lap or on your chair.
A small elegant handbag, clutch bag can be put on the table, bulk bag to hang on the back of a chair or put on the floor, if there is a special chair (these are often offered in restaurants). The portfolio put on the floor.
4. Plastic bags are only permitted after returning from the supermarket, as well as paper bags, branded boutiques.
Then wear them with you as a bag - zhlobstvo.
5. The man never wears women's bag.
And women's coats it takes just to convey to the locker room.
6. Home clothes - a pants and a sweater, comfortable, but with a decent view.
Slippers and pajamas are meant to reach the bathroom in the morning and in the evening - from the bathroom to the bedroom.
7. Since then, as the child resides in a separate room, accustomed to knock, coming to it Then he will do the same, before you enter into your bedroom.
8. A woman can not shoot indoors hat and gloves , but the hat and mittens.
9. The total number of ornaments on international protocol should not exceed 13 items, and this includes jewelry buttons Over the gloves do not wear a ring, but the bracelet is permissible. The darker the street, the more expensive jewelry. Diamonds have previously been married ladies evening decoration, but has recently become permissible to wear diamonds in the afternoon. For a young girl stud earrings with diamond about 0, 25 carats is quite appropriate.
10. Terms of the order in a restaurant, if you utter the phrase "I invite you," which means you pay.
If a woman invites a business partner in a restaurant, it pays. Another formulation - "Let's go to a restaurant" - assumes that everyone pays for itself, and only if the man himself offers to pay for a woman, she may agree.
11. The man is always the first part of the elevator, but the output of the first one who is closer to the door.
12. The vehicle is considered the most prestigious place behind the driver , it is a woman, a man sits down next to her, and when he comes out of the machine, holds the door and takes the lady's hand. If a man is sitting behind the wheel, the woman is also preferable to take a seat behind him. However, where no woman was sitting, a man should open the door for her and help out. In the business etiquette in recent years more and more men violate this rule, using the feminist slogan "In business, there are no women and men».
13. Speak loudly that you are sitting on a diet - a bad tone.
Moreover, it is impossible under this pretext to refuse food offered by the hospitable hostess. Be sure to praise her culinary talents, and you can not eat anything.
14. Taboo topics for small talk: politics, religion, health, money. Inappropriate question: "God, what a dress! How much do you pay? "How to respond? Cute smile: "It's a gift!" Turn the conversation to another topic. If the interviewee insists gently say, "I would not want to speak about it».
15. For every person who has reached 12 years, relying on contact "you». is disgusting to hear when people say "you," the waiter or chauffeur. Even those people with whom you are familiar, in the office better handle on the "you", "you" - only in private. Exception - if you peers or close friends. How to react if the person obstinately "poke" you? Please ask again: "Excuse me, do you turn to me?" Inache- neutral shrug: "Sorry, but we did not go on" you "».
16. Discuss missing, it is simply gossip, is unacceptable. It is not permissible to speak ill of relatives, in particular to discuss their husbands, as we have taken. If the husband is bad - why are you with him razvedeshsya? And just as impermissible to disdain, with a grimace speak about his native country. "In this country, all the redneck ..." - in this case, you also belong to this category of people.
17. In the cinema, the theater, the concert hall to go to the places to be alone to face the sitting.
The first is a man.
18. Nine things should be kept secret: age, wealth gap in the home, prayer, the composition of the drug, a love affair, a gift, honor and dishonor.
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"I am very sensitive to the rules of etiquette. How to pass the plate. Do not shout from one room to another. Do not plow a closed door without knocking. Skip forward lady. The aim of all these countless simple rules - to make life better. We can not live in a chronic state of war with their parents - it's stupid. I carefully watch your manners. This is not some abstraction. This is all understandable language of mutual respect ».
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