The Dark Side of Love: What to do if you realize that a person close to you has become a stranger?
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To be very happy, you have to experience a lot of sadness. In fact, it is impossible to feel real happiness without a thorough understanding of how to be bad. Realizing how low can drop elevates you when you're on top of the world. There is no better way to know the height and lows of life than to love someone.
Understand love means to realize that this feeling can you do, as you can make yourself feel, and how it changes a person consistently. Love consumes your life, and inevitably is crucial that it be happy or not.
You can not love and it does not feel the pain that accompanies this feeling. When you think about love and what it means to love a person, you are likely to take into account only the positive aspects, ignoring the negative. We often imagine love as the summit of happiness - but this is not it.
Love - it's not just positive feelings, but also negative. This whole experience in general: great and terrible things, which make people feel more alive than ever.
It is not necessary and should not try to avoid the sad side of love. The love of man is always associated with a sense of loss. Do you want to merge, becoming part of each other, and since this is not possible, will always feel that there is a part of another person, you have not yet fully know.
There is always the risk of losing a loved one - if not now, then when something's for sure. You do not have to separate the death of one partner. There is a strong possibility that over time you parted themselves.
Occasionally die, and love goes along with them. Time, people and circumstances change people. The love that you once felt, burn or fade, and the man who was all for you, becomes a stranger.
You can spend together the last few years, and only now realize that the man next to whom you wake up, not the one who you knew him. Realizing this is very difficult.
Now, you have to make a choice: to continue to go through life with this person, or survive the loss and start again.
Sooner or later, love dies, and it just gives it a great value. And all the sad feelings that you feel in relation to people who were once part of your life, but most of it is not - is also one of its manifestations.