Top 25 tips on how to raise a child's personality. All parents note ... Bashny.Net

As long as the baby is in the crib and joyfully agukaet you tenderly sigh, looking at these clumsy attempts to learn about the world. But is quite a bit of time, and the endless questions "What?" And "Why?" Splitting headache. At such times, it would be desirable to raising a child who is engaged in anything to you from behind. Here "aid" comes cartoons, movies, mommy "of the sandbox," a neighbor from downstairs, and even advertising. Stop! Now the most important thing - to pull myself together, because it is how you bring up your child, depends on the rest of his life. We know that it is extremely difficult, but do not rush to close our eyes to the problem and minimize our article - Learn how not to kill the child in person and bring him a worthy man.





1. Think, you want to raise an obedient and successful person?
2. When a child refuses to listen to you - remember about the item № 1.
3. You'll be surprised, but even the smallest child knows their needs: heat or cold to him, he is hungry or not satisfied with something or unhappy.
4. Do not scold children for shortcomings - they just copy your behavior. Better watch yourself.
5. To teach your child independence, often to provide him with a choice: he wants to eat, what to play, he likes to walk. Develop leadership qualities in him!
6. The negative experience and mistakes - that, in the whole world learns chëm. If possible, do not deprive him of this.
7. If there is a choice before you: to insure the child in difficult times, or frighten him with all sorts of consequences - it is better to select the first.
8. Care and guardianship - concepts that are often confused. If the child can do something on their own (to draw a picture, dress pants, tie shoelaces), does not deprive him of this possibility. Exception - if he asks you about it.
9. The best way to learn something - to do together.
10. If a child is ill (crying, not in the mood, sick) it should not teach, and love. Push to her, kiss, say a kind word - it will always miss the baby until it is small, and you, when he grows up.
11. The strength does not always mean rightness.
12. In order to pull my child from the computer or TV - write it in different sections. However, only those that it will be interesting to visit.





13. If you have doubts in choosing a nanny, educator, teacher, tutor, the first criterion in the selection must be love for the children (not to be confused with "syusyukanem»).
14. The more you respect your child, the more chances he has to become a truly honorable man.
15. Be able to admit his error or ignorance in some matter. Do not pretend to be infallible.
16. If a child nabedokuril and received a reprimand from adults (in kindergarten, school, clubs) do not duplicate the work of the teacher. Best praise where those nedohvalivayut.
17. Do not be lazy to learn the issues. Independently found the answer is much more valuable and long remain in the memory than Readily.
18. Do not accustom child to get attention only during his illness: he will enjoy it all the time, and you - to operate from hospital to hospital.
19. Do not sacrifice their interests for the sake of the child. Remember that you - the same person and you have your needs. The ability to defend its interests and to take care of yourself - the best example to follow.
20. If you want your child has grown docile - use the method of "carrot and stick».
21. Do not force the child to implement your dreams, it is better to implement them yourself.
22. If you feel that somewhere made a mistake - just apologize. Do not turn his blunder in the session morals.
23. Be careful in money matters. Many psychologists believe that it is better not to give money, but to teach to earn almost from the cradle. Delivers debris made the lessons brought a good mark ... As a child gets their own "salary" and learning to manage it yourself.
24. If you were given a promise to punish him for something - punish. Cancel punishment - means to cheat.
25. Fortunately, not all parents make mistakes at the same time, so the one who remembers the point number one, can protect a child from another.





From the education of the young rising generation depends on your future. Therefore, in no case do not be afraid to take responsibility and be sure to share this article with your friends who have children or grow very young Brothers and Sisters. Do not deprive children opportunities to grow decent people!

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