Myths about Marriage and Family Bashny.Net

Seven myths about family life!





Myth 1. Married women are unhappy

Often associated with free girl hope, happiness, dreams, romance and spring. But the image of a married woman is not so romantic: tired, the woman at the stove in a soiled robe. It is at the service staff of the whole family (cooks, washes, cleans). In this case, it is always unhappy, constantly nags her husband. That is deeply unhappy and angry. In fact, married women, as well as free, visit beauty salons, spas, indulge in shopping, build a career. Now cook a lot easier, especially since men are preparing not only on holidays. It has long been women earn equal footing with men, and men are prepared if you have to work early. The only woman takes care of all the household chores, if she a housewife, and her husband one works.

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Myth 2. Frequent quarrels - a sign of a failed marriage

Not always quarrel is something negative. A relationship is impossible without them. They help to better understand the position of the other partner. Also quarrel help relieve emotional stress, speak and cute reconciled. For some couples quarrel generally are adrenaline, which sharpens the senses, making them brighter. This refers to an argument, which is popularly called "Lovely curse", but in any case not the scandals that overstep the red line, or criminal. Much worse when the couple for a long time keep silent, save up resentment, frustrated. As a result, under the pressure of the Cold War, relations are destroyed. And people can not even guess the silent claims. Whether business in a quarrel: all expressed, and such release.



Myth 3. Children strengthen relationships

If a family problem, many people think: "But if we had a child, he would have strengthened the relationship." But the child does not solve the accumulated problems. On the contrary, with the birth of a child appears burden on family relationships. To have a baby, you need to create an enabling environment in the family, it is the material side, and emotional. If the family had problems with the appearance of the baby, the situation will only worsen, and claims will increase. When the family is ready to have a child, this event makes her happy. If the Union is bursting at the seams, it is likely that the child will become a burden, and the relationship will come to rupture. If you pay attention, you will notice, most of the families are divorced after the birth. From this it can be concluded that it is impossible to keep the man or the child to solve family problems.



Myth 4. Married men are jealous bachelors

If a man is married consciously and early marriage is not, then he is not weary of his position, as is usually portrayed. Men happy realization that home waiting for them, that they have a family. And the rest they can not worse than idle friends. And alternative nightclubs can become family picnics with barbeque.



Myth 5. Married people are losing interest in the partner

Quality of sex is independent of whether the couple are married or not. There are too many components (temperament, attitude to the partner). And interest can not lose to the spouse (e), and to a specific person. That is, it is important to understand that a person can be an interesting or uninteresting, and this fact does not depend on whether people are married or not.

Myth 6. Quiet family life is boring

It is believed that family life is monotonous and evenings alike. In fact, couples life is filled with its own traditions, far-reaching plans, objectives. Live is interesting - it does not mean constantly rip the clubs or go to bars. The family can not be boring, as long as the relationship is love, passion. Such pairs is interesting to go back home, to learn, how was your day with a spouse. There can be no wonder when the baby is born coveted, makes its first tentative steps, starts talking to his children's language when it reaches the first victories. Sometimes these moments are more important than the happiness of a free (idle) man.



Myth 7. Married no romance

Considered if the candy buketny period ended, then goodbye, expectations, hopes, dreams remained in premarital period. In place of romance comes to life. In fact, if the relationship is love, the pair committed the same passions, and not at all devoid of romance. Spouses often jealous of each other, in the good sense of the word, sometimes arrange small provocation. But they make pleasant surprises, romantic dinners.