The old man taught not to forgive anyone, then the ailment will never cling. Bashny.Net

Man is a social creature, and he simply cannot live alone. From history, we know about isolated cases, about hermit monks who preferred to live away from people. Most people have been connected to society since their birth. Then we go to kindergarten, school, where we are taught socialization skills. We are taught to interact with others, to defend our interests, to respect the personal boundaries of others. As we grow older, our communication grows with you. We have a widening range of emotions, and this is normal for anyone.



One of the main issues in the context of building interpersonal relationships is forgiveness. Someone has done something unpleasant to us, and we think, whether to forgive? How can we communicate with this person after forgiveness? How will this person behave after our forgiveness?



In fact, these are very complex and ambiguous issues, from the point of view of psychology and networking. And according to the rules of good manners, it is somehow indecent to walk and sulk for months or years. Especially if it is a close and dear person. He may have offended and repented long ago. And we keep sulking at him.

But what happens to a person on the subtle, spiritual plane when he forgives? After all, we are taught to forgive from childhood, we are taught this by the church and religion. How does the process of forgiveness actually work? Does it really cause peace and quiet, does it revert?



And it does not matter who you forgive: an enemy or a friend, a relative or a colleague at work. The processes in your body are the same, only the strength of emotions can be different. The accumulation of negative emotions destroys us from within. Hence diseases, poor health and failures in life.

What is forgiveness? Let's look at the situation. Your close friend hurt you. Maybe not in particular. He might not have known about your reaction to his antics. But you're offended and pretty bad. His actions hurt your feelings, and you felt very uncomfortable. But he asked for your forgiveness, and you forgive him. It would seem that the conflict is settled, there is no resentment anymore. You continue to communicate as if nothing had happened. And you feel like you emotionally let go of that resentment and it won't come back to you.



Peels And you actually buried it in your subconscious. And the next time a similar situation occurs, the previous resentment will resurface in your memory and hit your emotional plane with double force.



And in those moments, you realize that now you won't forgive. And you grow that resentment, that negative emotion. But it is grievances that are the source of diseases, and most often incurable diseases. When we accumulate them in ourselves, we do not analyze why this or that situation happened to us. That's how all diseases happen.

Therefore, to protect yourself from terrible diseases, to permanently get rid of feelings of resentment and misunderstanding, learn not to be offended. Learn to let go. Take a lesson from it, the positive growth of your consciousness and let go. After all, if a dog barks at you, you will not kneel and bark at it.



The same thing happens with resentment. A situation has happened deliberately or accidentally, only you decide how to treat it. Resent or let go, incur negativity or get rid of it. Our attitudes can change the consequences of this situation, even on a planetary scale.