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Mom called it a "mistake of youth" and told about the sister, she planned
Unwanted child - like a lifelong mistake. History knows many cases when the cuckoo mother for one reason or another refused her native child. Financial problems, postpartum depression, moral rejection. There is no difference for the baby as such.
After all, in most cases, if the “mother” refused him, then the “dad” will not be there. Years spent in an orphanage, forever leave a mark on the psyche. Only in very rare cases do children describe this period of their lives as "not such a bad time, really."
Unwanted child Denis from childhood knew that he was brought up not by his mother and father, but by his grandparents. No, it wasn't a tragic incident, no. The biological parents had a baby too early. They ran away, and he, a two-year-old baby, was left in the care of older people. The only one who found the situation amusing was Denis’ grandfather.
The thing is that he was wildly funny by the fact that already at the age of 35 he became a real “grandfather”.
- I wasn't even called that in the army!
The child grew and over time began to ask questions. Although he was presented to everyone as his own child, you can’t hide anything in a small town. And children these days can be quite angry and insensitive. In elementary school Denis tried to somehow shame, they say, the real parents turned away from him. But the guy turned out with character and after a couple of three clarifications of the relationship “once and once”, claims to him quickly decreased.
His grandmother often comforted him and told him about his own daughter. Said it was easy. Wrong time, wrong age. Denis tried to raise strong, so lying in this case did not make sense. And he understood. In small, peripheral towns, children somehow become adults much faster than in a well-fed and mannered capital.
Perhaps that is why Denis realized early that if he wants to achieve something in this life, he cannot do without moving. I just didn’t want to get away from my family. Grandparents always knew how to cheer their grandson up, how to help them. I had a great desire to see my mother. Father, as he realized, was no longer destined to see.
And so, in early spring, when their distant relatives were planning an anniversary, the grandmother came to the guy with a conversation.
I dreamed of meeting with my mother of 16 years - Deniska, on Friday you will go with us to Sidorov for the holiday.
Me? Why? I don't like all this. I have plans, actually. Go with Grandpa together. Remember your youth, dance. I won't be lost. It’s just a costume to look for...
- Denise, I understand you perfectly. But it's rumored that Mom will be there. Your mom. She didn't call me, but her friend told me yesterday. In short, think, boy. If you want to see her, let's all go together. I have nothing to say to her. I think you've waited long enough to see her at 16. She became a mother at the same age. Oh, my God.
Denis was sleepy that night. He imagined how he would bombard his own mother with questions. Tell her about your life. Get to know her better. But most importantly, she will know why she left him. Was it her age or was it him? Maybe it's his real father's fault, and he put her up to it. There's not much time left, he'll know soon enough.
Mother was not at all what he imagined The next evening Denis will never forget. Deep down, he was nervous and fearful that his mother would not come. But no, in the middle of the evening, after the official part of the holiday, an unknown woman arrived. Somehow, Denis figured it out for himself. She was already drunk and willingly chirped with everyone and took pictures. It was clear that this woman in life is always and everywhere in his plate.
Then the woman saw her grandmother, came to her. They talked for 5 minutes and eventually she went to Denis. It was clear from the outside that they were relatives. But most of all they looked like brother and sister.
Breaking the covers, as Denis fantasized himself, did not happen. The biological mother smoothly approached her son and hugged him. Her maternal instinct was exhausted. Next, she asked her son about school, about whether his grandparents were offending him. Life plans. Absolutely standard nonsense, talking completely strangers.
Denis tried to tell everything in order, but at some point he realized that the woman in front of him was already looking around in search of other interlocutors. She's not really interested. Not even curious. And then the guy came up with the same question that had been in his head all night.
- Mom, why did you leave me? What's the reason?
- There's no reason, Denise. Denis... I actually called you Vanya. There's no reason. How old was I? 16 years. I couldn't even think about it. Childhood played in one place. You look serious. That's good. You have a sister, by the way. She's 3. You see, she's already done well at a responsible age.
Well, it was kind of planned, you know? I mean, don't worry, don't blame yourself. Who is to blame for what happened? It's an accident, life just happened. And now here we go. The main thing is, my parents are young and were able to raise a real man out of you! All right, son. I'm gonna go, I'm gonna give you more presents and congratulate everyone. Let's talk a little later. Nice talking to you, actually. Very nice.
What is a real family? Denis waited another 5 minutes for decency, then approached his grandmother and referred to stomach pain to go home. She, with barely noticeable tears in her eyes, let him go. The next day, the boy completely erased the image of his mother. Now he had only a grandfather (because he liked being called a grandfather) and a grandmother.
And since then, this fact has become the main one. Everything else is nonsense. Family is sacred. You need to know who is really part of your family. Thinking about everyone at once is too much of an honor.
After all, in most cases, if the “mother” refused him, then the “dad” will not be there. Years spent in an orphanage, forever leave a mark on the psyche. Only in very rare cases do children describe this period of their lives as "not such a bad time, really."
Unwanted child Denis from childhood knew that he was brought up not by his mother and father, but by his grandparents. No, it wasn't a tragic incident, no. The biological parents had a baby too early. They ran away, and he, a two-year-old baby, was left in the care of older people. The only one who found the situation amusing was Denis’ grandfather.
The thing is that he was wildly funny by the fact that already at the age of 35 he became a real “grandfather”.
- I wasn't even called that in the army!
The child grew and over time began to ask questions. Although he was presented to everyone as his own child, you can’t hide anything in a small town. And children these days can be quite angry and insensitive. In elementary school Denis tried to somehow shame, they say, the real parents turned away from him. But the guy turned out with character and after a couple of three clarifications of the relationship “once and once”, claims to him quickly decreased.
His grandmother often comforted him and told him about his own daughter. Said it was easy. Wrong time, wrong age. Denis tried to raise strong, so lying in this case did not make sense. And he understood. In small, peripheral towns, children somehow become adults much faster than in a well-fed and mannered capital.
Perhaps that is why Denis realized early that if he wants to achieve something in this life, he cannot do without moving. I just didn’t want to get away from my family. Grandparents always knew how to cheer their grandson up, how to help them. I had a great desire to see my mother. Father, as he realized, was no longer destined to see.
And so, in early spring, when their distant relatives were planning an anniversary, the grandmother came to the guy with a conversation.
I dreamed of meeting with my mother of 16 years - Deniska, on Friday you will go with us to Sidorov for the holiday.
Me? Why? I don't like all this. I have plans, actually. Go with Grandpa together. Remember your youth, dance. I won't be lost. It’s just a costume to look for...
- Denise, I understand you perfectly. But it's rumored that Mom will be there. Your mom. She didn't call me, but her friend told me yesterday. In short, think, boy. If you want to see her, let's all go together. I have nothing to say to her. I think you've waited long enough to see her at 16. She became a mother at the same age. Oh, my God.
Denis was sleepy that night. He imagined how he would bombard his own mother with questions. Tell her about your life. Get to know her better. But most importantly, she will know why she left him. Was it her age or was it him? Maybe it's his real father's fault, and he put her up to it. There's not much time left, he'll know soon enough.
Mother was not at all what he imagined The next evening Denis will never forget. Deep down, he was nervous and fearful that his mother would not come. But no, in the middle of the evening, after the official part of the holiday, an unknown woman arrived. Somehow, Denis figured it out for himself. She was already drunk and willingly chirped with everyone and took pictures. It was clear that this woman in life is always and everywhere in his plate.
Then the woman saw her grandmother, came to her. They talked for 5 minutes and eventually she went to Denis. It was clear from the outside that they were relatives. But most of all they looked like brother and sister.
Breaking the covers, as Denis fantasized himself, did not happen. The biological mother smoothly approached her son and hugged him. Her maternal instinct was exhausted. Next, she asked her son about school, about whether his grandparents were offending him. Life plans. Absolutely standard nonsense, talking completely strangers.
Denis tried to tell everything in order, but at some point he realized that the woman in front of him was already looking around in search of other interlocutors. She's not really interested. Not even curious. And then the guy came up with the same question that had been in his head all night.
- Mom, why did you leave me? What's the reason?
- There's no reason, Denise. Denis... I actually called you Vanya. There's no reason. How old was I? 16 years. I couldn't even think about it. Childhood played in one place. You look serious. That's good. You have a sister, by the way. She's 3. You see, she's already done well at a responsible age.
Well, it was kind of planned, you know? I mean, don't worry, don't blame yourself. Who is to blame for what happened? It's an accident, life just happened. And now here we go. The main thing is, my parents are young and were able to raise a real man out of you! All right, son. I'm gonna go, I'm gonna give you more presents and congratulate everyone. Let's talk a little later. Nice talking to you, actually. Very nice.
What is a real family? Denis waited another 5 minutes for decency, then approached his grandmother and referred to stomach pain to go home. She, with barely noticeable tears in her eyes, let him go. The next day, the boy completely erased the image of his mother. Now he had only a grandfather (because he liked being called a grandfather) and a grandmother.
And since then, this fact has become the main one. Everything else is nonsense. Family is sacred. You need to know who is really part of your family. Thinking about everyone at once is too much of an honor.
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