A wise grandmother taught me how to be a housekeeper, not a cleaner.

What should a wife be like? Careful and responsible, protecting the family hearth and giving everything to the family? Or she is. You have to be yourself.Whatever it is? The hardest part is keeping the balance and living the life you really want. homely.

On the one hand, it’s a little strange when men’s requests relate to cleaning, cooking and other things in the same spirit. After all, a man is looking for a partner in life. not a housekeeper, nanny or escort. On the other hand, it is difficult to live with a person for whom cleaning is just a dictionary concept.



Home comfort inspires you to come home. Being clean is much more pleasant than in a mess. When I think about the radical feminist view of cleaning and other household chores, I think about the Friends series all the time. In it, Ross came to visit his beautiful employee. They were supposed to have a romantic reunion, but her apartment was so messy that it was so bad. The guy just ran away from terror.



I understand very well the women for whom Cleanliness and order are not the main goal in life.. They shouldn't be. However, it is difficult for me to understand a person who does not care at all about where and in what conditions he lives. Although, I confess, I have met such people many times. Their apartments were scary to look at.



In most cases, it turned out to be creative natures, who in principle did not notice much, except that they were really hooked. Artists, musicians, dancers... Most of them find it difficult to concentrate on ordinary household items. The mind of these people is completely different. The problems of this mortal world do not interest them much.



I sincerely believe that this is their sacred right. If a man lives by himself, he is free to do whatever he pleases.. Clean every day, do not clean at all, cook 10 dishes or always use home delivery services. This is normal when people like that live alone.



And yet we are social animals. We want to find a mate and strive to create a strong relationship. It's not uncommon. cohabitation. Of course, you can move in and completely ignore the opinion of your partner about your general life. Perhaps this approach will hold at first.. Hormones of love close our eyes to many things.

But sooner or later, unfortunately, flouting They will finish off even the greatest love. Domestic trifles will undermine the relationship, like a stream sharpens a pebble. It is sad when the stumbling block becomes such banal things as the lack of order in the house.



Life wisdom and editorial advice Do not completely ignore your nature for the sake of your partner. However, it is necessary to build your life together in such a way that The two were comfortable and no one felt hurt.. The balance should be kept on both sides. It should not be such that one person is completely bent under another.

Perhaps you will feel that you can withstand and will do everything to satisfy your loved one. However, It's self-deception.. This can only continue as long as you are in love. Some people say that love lives for three years. No, fortunately, she lives much longer. Only for this you need to work on yourself and on relationships.