A stranger asked why such a beauty wanders alone down the street on New Year’s Eve, but we are in Paris, everything is possible here. Bashny.Net

I don't want to talk. sadnessBut there's no escape from the truth. According to statistics, 4 million people annually celebrate the New Year alone. Millions of people are left alone on Christmas Eve, feeling abandoned by God. The reasons for this can be very different.



Breakup of relationships, tradition, unpleasant memories, depression and ordinary, everyday loneliness. It is very sad when people can not spend holidays with loved ones or at least friends. However, life is full of surprises and, unfortunately, they do not always have a positive taste.

For many people, celebrating New Year and Christmas alone is a conscious choice. It's not a matter of faith or anything. It's just a man spending time alone. He either sleeps or rests as he pleases. And yet, even the most “satisfied” loner in his heart regrets his choice.



The point is that we humans are creatures with a strong sense of society. If we know for sure that somewhere (most often right behind the wall) people are loudly celebrating something, we will be interested. You can not even arrange a party, and be with the closest or even two with a loved one. The New Year holidays are an extra reason to take a breath from the constant bustle of work. It is easy to be alone on a weekend.

Some people, on the contrary, try to spend the holidays with the maximum number of people. But because of their age, their social habits or whatever, they don’t always succeed. For example, you've been ignoring people all your life because of your career, and by the end of the year, you've realized that nobody's going to tolerate you. Or even more simply: I was in an unfamiliar city just in the midst of the holidays.



These are extroverts, and vice versa, closed introverts. But all of them, in one way or another, want a human presence. One woman, for example, after a divorce, took this habit: on the New Year holidays, she bought a ticket to another city. On the train, she would celebrate with complete strangers and then go out and walk around the city. After all, she went home again, savoring every interesting moment of her unusual journey.



But one guy, on the contrary, was tired of constantly communicating with customers live. He made good money on deals, but the constant presence of strangers in his space was annoying. He even left his girlfriend because of it. But in order not to be left alone on New Year’s Eve, he connected his camera to his computer and chatted on the Internet with people from all over the world. One click of the mouse and to replace one interlocutor appeared quite another. Comfortable.

Someone can be criticized and say, “What are you?” The New Year should be celebrated with someone! In childhood with parents, in youth with friends, and then with family! Yes, we are familiar with this scheme and generally agree with it. But let’s think together: there are so many of us that it makes no sense for everyone to hope for the same life situation.



Peels or here's another example. The girl N. just for the holidays her husband was in the hospital. Accident, serious condition. My husband did, but only about a year later. Old injuries are still being felt and have greatly reduced their family’s quality of life. So, despite the fact that dear N. celebrated the New Year holidays at large feasts, abroad, in the mountains, at home under a beautiful tree... Her association is now only with this accident. As a result, they are now removed from their family.

In fact, you need to understand that holidays are just an occasion to meet friends or family. If this time it was not possible to mark them in the company, this does not mean that the whole year will pass at a similar pace. You don’t have to fill your head with such thoughts. Best of all, on the contrary, try to do everything possible so that the coming year, despite everything, was as successful as possible.



And then about the failed party you will remember with a slight smile and even a little nostalgia. Congratulations to you, your family and loved ones Happy New Year and Christmas. We can do this!