Why there is no point in finding the perfect spouse

Dr. Itzhak Adizes is a guru of modern management and personal development. His books have become board books for many world leaders. He lectures in 40 countries and is a political consultant to the government in Israel, Sweden, Greece, Brazil, Ghana, Iceland, Mexico, Macedonia. He knows exactly, how to succeed And to be happy in our turbulent times.





Yitzhak Adizes has a lot of life stories and quotes, but the editorial board "Site" I suggest you reflect on 10 quotes from his speeches. This will be enough to draw some conclusions, and change for the better.

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1. “The people or things you love do not always bring you pleasure. Quite the opposite.”
   And it really is. In addition to feeling happy, we are a lot nervous, suffering or worried about a loved one or loved one. Or, for example, saving up for an expensive car, you will probably be very sad about any malfunction.
   
   
   
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2. “Do not try to find the perfect spouse. Look for someone with whom you can live.”
   It has long been known that there are no ideals either among things or among people. You may not be perfect for your “perfect” partner. It is necessary to take into account the important fact that you need to live with this person until your last breath, build a common life and raise children. And for all this you need a reliable and loved person. 171200
   
   
   
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3. “One should not indulge in illusions. Dream well in your sleep until you wake up in the morning.
   That's so true! Many people suffer because the world is not as we would like. Dream before going to bed, but it is better to set goals and say: “I will, I will achieve!” instead of: “How good it would be ...”
   
   
   
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4. “The day you stop learning should only be the day you die.”
   Live, learn. There are so many interesting things in the world that it is impossible to understand why people are discouraged and do not want to develop. Your brain should always be trained. Then neither old age, nor dementia, nor depression will overtake you. It's already scientifically proven.
   
   
   
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5. “You cannot be a good parent if you are afraid of raising children. So with a company, you don’t become a leader if you’re afraid to control people.
   It is the same in every aspect of our lives. You can't succeed in something that doesn't suit you. Therefore, going to an unloved job, living with a nasty husband, communicating with people who are not suitable for you - this is all that will always pull you to the bottom.
   
   
   
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6. In Chinese, “problem” and “opportunity” are the same word. Indeed, every problem is an opportunity, an opportunity to learn.”
   If life only brought joy, you would not realize that it exists. Don’t take everything as something terrible. Just work on a solution, turning your problem into an opportunity or a useful life lesson.
   
   
   
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7. “There can be no long-term wins until you accept the risk of short-term losses.”
   Winning is too easy. Losing is a life experience. Sometimes, in order to achieve something, you need to study all possible mistakes, moreover, on personal experience.
   
   
   
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8. “Fortunately, with experience comes maturity, and with it comes modesty.”
   In youth and youth we are characterized by maximalism, selfishness and boasting. But over the years, we become wiser and clearly separate the main from the secondary. This is what is really important, we keep in our hearts and protect, and not try to get out of our skin to prove something to someone.
   
   
   
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9. For a relationship to be trusting, your mind must be present in it and must be directed toward the person who is nearby.
   Feelings and emotions are beautiful. But there are many moments in relationships that cannot be solved without the intervention of the mind. This is not a story about a prince and a princess.
   
   
   
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10. “Our principal capital is health, family and good friends. As long as we have these three gifts of God, money can come and go. If you lose your health, everything else will no longer matter. If you lose your family, it is tantamount to death. Good friends will always help to find a way out of any crisis.”
    It's just important to remember that.
    
    
    
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By changing our consciousness, we are changing ourselves and the world around us. Of course, Yitzhak Adizes talks about things we all know. But, alas, we rarely think and really bring into our lives. Some of the quotes you may not like, but it makes sense to think about them.

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