How not to ruin your child’s future

Remember how many times you resented your parents when you were little. Do you resent them for anything yet? Child grievances Our parents are the first people we learn from. And if parents make mistakes in raising a child, it can affect his future life.

The influence of the parents of the child strong psychological influence on us. Since the emotional bond with mom and dad is the strongest, the methods of parenting affect the child in the future. And pedagogical incompetence leads to serious, unpleasant consequences and is not reflected in the best way on the character of the child.



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Editorial "Site" 10 mistakes that parents make in raising children. Knowing these mistakes will help you figure out what you’ve done wrong so far. You will begin to get along with your child and raise him correctly, without harming his psyche.

Mistakes in parenting

1. Hyperopecia
   The most obvious sign is that your child will be out of control in the future. Children who in childhood were not allowed to step on their own, from the moment of adulthood can go into all serious situations.
   
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2. Time constraints
   If you are a careerist and have no time for a family, it is better not to create it. Not everyone can harmoniously combine family and work, and children need constant attention. Try after work to devote at least half an hour to the child, ask how he is doing, how was his day.
   
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3. Children are best friends
   If you have a lot of problems, this is not a reason to deprive your child of childhood. Instead of telling him how you got bored at work, play with him, ask him how you were doing, what your child was doing, what he learned in the day. And if you want to speak to someone, but no one – get a cat. These fluffy people can pour out their souls and they won't judge you.
   
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4. Punishment for strangers
   Good parents never scold or beat their child in plain sight. Not only is this spectacle not pleasant, but it can also leave an imprint on the psyche of the child. Especially when parents beat, because the child remembers it for life.
   
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5. Cash compensation
   If you are very busy and hardly see your child, money will not help to gain love and trust. No matter how many expensive gifts you give, your child will remember for life that you did not pay attention to him.
   
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6. Late education
   Often, young parents let the development of the child take its course because they do not know how to raise it. And after twenty years, they gain intelligence and begin to teach, although it does no good to anyone. It is better to timely stock up on benefits for young parents.
   
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7. Bad habits
   Everyone has them, but when a child is in the house, he sees and absorbs everything like a sponge, no matter how you hide from him with a cigarette in your teeth. If you want to raise a person and be proud of him, you have to work on yourself first. Go out more often with your son, play football with him, learn to pull up.
   
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8. Finding out the relationship with the child
   As we grow up, our memories shape the future. If parents constantly quarrel with a child, there is a high probability that he will become vulnerable, closed. And when she grows up, she will behave just like mom and dad.
   
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9. Aggression
   No matter how hard you get at work, don't take it out on the kid. Although this task is very difficult, the child will not understand that you are just tired.
   
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10. Vacuum
    If you have already promised something to a child and forgot, know that the child will not forget. If empty promises are repeated often, the child will remember that you can not be trusted, and can copy this pattern of behavior in the future.
    
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Being a parent is the hardest job, you can’t take a day off. There are no parents who are not mistaken, but you can fix yourself, you just need to want to.

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