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Why children are cranky
Raising a child is a whole science. And in order to better cope with their parenting duties, new moms and dads are ready for anything. They consult with children’s doctors, ask advice from mothers and grandmothers, look for answers to their questions on the Internet. Each time they realize that they are mediocre parents.
Others have their own children, and they have their own children. And seeing such a difference, loving parents dig inside themselves, look for the causes of their troubles and only delve deeper into the endless worries. But maybe the problem isn't parents who don't know, How to raise a capricious child...
The fact is that all children are completely different, no matter how similar they seem on the outside. And today we will share the candid opinion of the reader Maya, who explains why it is difficult for some parents and easy for others.
The capricious children "Hello!" I am the woman with the perfect pregnancy. Even two. I have no idea about toxicity and mood swings. All 9 months I enjoyed life, traveled and even went to the mountains. I ate everything I normally did and hardly recovered.”
“I have nothing to say about childbirth. After the contractions began, I walked around the city with my husband, then cooked dinner, put my daughter to bed, washed and went to give birth.
“A second daughter was born after a second attempt. I'd even say she wasn't born, she jumped out. I came home at the same weight I had before I was pregnant. Without a single stretch.
“You can't stand me anymore, can you? What if I start to argue that your toxicosis is a punishment for malnutrition? What if I told you the birth was hard because you didn't try hard? What if I told you to do yoga, because I do yoga myself, and because of this, the birth went smoothly?
“You must be ready to tear me apart. Some would say I was just lucky. He'll be right!
“Yes, I was very lucky to have a painless birth. Just as lucky are many parents with their sparse babies and calm three-year-olds. Just luck and nothing more, believe me.
And if a young mother manages to lick the whole house to shine, cook a 3-course dinner and get a fresh manicure, then she is not such a smart, beautiful and brilliant time manager. She was lucky to have a baby.”
“If so, why complain to a woman who doesn’t even have time to wash her hair for constant care? No, she's not a loser or a lazy person. It's just that she has children like that.
“You don’t have to tell her how you can spend hours in the bathroom with a couple of toys on the floor for a child. She has probably tried it before, but it didn’t go away with her baby.”
“Some babies, just imagine, can only sleep in their mother’s arms. And it’s not because the woman taught the child. It is simply because the child may otherwise be screaming so that neighbors will run after social workers.”
“And if your child can spend hours enthusiastically going through simple toys, you are in luck. If he's never yelled on a plane or washed up on the floor in a supermarket, that's good luck. It's not education.
Like adults, children are different even in their first months of life. What works with one child may not work with another. So instead of starting to criticize someone, Maya suggests you just be happy that you're in the middle of it. lucky and walk by quietly.
We believe that we can only partially agree with this view, because capricious You can become an obedient child if your parents do the right thing. And we also explained why your favorite child should be praised more often.
What do you think about that?
Others have their own children, and they have their own children. And seeing such a difference, loving parents dig inside themselves, look for the causes of their troubles and only delve deeper into the endless worries. But maybe the problem isn't parents who don't know, How to raise a capricious child...
The fact is that all children are completely different, no matter how similar they seem on the outside. And today we will share the candid opinion of the reader Maya, who explains why it is difficult for some parents and easy for others.
The capricious children "Hello!" I am the woman with the perfect pregnancy. Even two. I have no idea about toxicity and mood swings. All 9 months I enjoyed life, traveled and even went to the mountains. I ate everything I normally did and hardly recovered.”
“I have nothing to say about childbirth. After the contractions began, I walked around the city with my husband, then cooked dinner, put my daughter to bed, washed and went to give birth.
“A second daughter was born after a second attempt. I'd even say she wasn't born, she jumped out. I came home at the same weight I had before I was pregnant. Without a single stretch.
“You can't stand me anymore, can you? What if I start to argue that your toxicosis is a punishment for malnutrition? What if I told you the birth was hard because you didn't try hard? What if I told you to do yoga, because I do yoga myself, and because of this, the birth went smoothly?
“You must be ready to tear me apart. Some would say I was just lucky. He'll be right!
“Yes, I was very lucky to have a painless birth. Just as lucky are many parents with their sparse babies and calm three-year-olds. Just luck and nothing more, believe me.
And if a young mother manages to lick the whole house to shine, cook a 3-course dinner and get a fresh manicure, then she is not such a smart, beautiful and brilliant time manager. She was lucky to have a baby.”
“If so, why complain to a woman who doesn’t even have time to wash her hair for constant care? No, she's not a loser or a lazy person. It's just that she has children like that.
“You don’t have to tell her how you can spend hours in the bathroom with a couple of toys on the floor for a child. She has probably tried it before, but it didn’t go away with her baby.”
“Some babies, just imagine, can only sleep in their mother’s arms. And it’s not because the woman taught the child. It is simply because the child may otherwise be screaming so that neighbors will run after social workers.”
“And if your child can spend hours enthusiastically going through simple toys, you are in luck. If he's never yelled on a plane or washed up on the floor in a supermarket, that's good luck. It's not education.
Like adults, children are different even in their first months of life. What works with one child may not work with another. So instead of starting to criticize someone, Maya suggests you just be happy that you're in the middle of it. lucky and walk by quietly.
We believe that we can only partially agree with this view, because capricious You can become an obedient child if your parents do the right thing. And we also explained why your favorite child should be praised more often.
What do you think about that?