How to Be a Good Father to Your Children

Children always follow the example of adults, repeat their actions. They even unknowingly copy their parents or the people they care about. Watching adults, children form their own patterns of behavior.

Therefore, every parent has a great responsibility for the upbringing of the child. In the early years of life, the mother is a little closer to the child than the father, her bond with him is stronger. But the father is also important, his presence, his communication with the baby has a huge impact on his development. What is he supposed to do?



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Parenting a Father's Model of Education
  1. The first duty of a father to children is to love their mother.
    To love a mother means to create a family, the substance in which children will grow up. A strong alliance that protects children. It also shows how to treat women.



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  2. Participate in education
    You need to spend more time with your child than 5 minutes a day. Studies show that there is a direct link between the absence of a father and poor performance of a child, low IQ, aggressiveness, and a tendency to crime. The father must be present in the life of the child, that is, communicate with him. You don’t have to be in the same area. To talk to him periodically, to establish human contact.



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  3. Set an example
    If you don’t want your children to smoke, you should get rid of bad habits. If you want to make them love their parents, you have to take care of your own. The father is an example of honesty, decency and goodwill. It is under the influence of the father that conscience develops.

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  4. Father is reliability
    Father protects, protects the whole family. The father cares when he sets certain rules, temporal and spatial limits, sometimes forbidding something.

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  5. Inspire and encourage
    “No matter what happens, I am always with you!” is the perfect phrase a father can say because he understands that the child is weak. “You will succeed!” is another phrase that teaches your child to be independent, despite having support. 1961

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  6. Teach to solve problems
    In our society, it is accepted that men solve problems. He's independent, strong, smart. He must teach his children to solve problems, regardless of gender. To be responsible for your actions.

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  7. Forgive the children
    Mother's heart is soft, it always forgives, his forgiveness is the warmest. But fatherly forgiveness is equally important. It means acceptance and approval, without which it is impossible to feel complete.

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Raising a child by a father It starts with making tactile contact. The father should hold the child in his arms, rock him in early childhood at the first stage of acquaintance with the child. Next comes the stage of the game, then conversations, communication. And finally, setting an example and setting a framework for behavior.

More about how important the role of the father in the upbringing of the child, read in our articles. Follow the links.