I want to return to my ex-husband, but my son stubbornly holds on to his stepfather.

The ability to fall in love is inherent, probably, of any age. This bright feeling can flare up at the most inopportune moment, even for a person who does not deserve it at all. And if it is. past-loveI can only guess how long it will last.



Everything flows, everything changes. People who have seemed to know all their lives are changing. You have to be ready to let go of someone for something new. And not to clutch at the relationship hands and feet, even if everyone knows that nothing good will grow out of them. However, for this you need to have a good self-control and a confident outlook on life.

The first love Katina appeared in her school. Zahar. He was 2 years older than her, but they looked different. Little, always scared Katenka, always worried about studying, and Zahar, who, in principle, did not care about school. It is impossible to say that the guy at least somehow paid attention to the girl, but closer to the end of school they officially met and even began to walk together.



For Katya, it was a real happiness. Tall handsome, with a lot of friends, the most popular guy, and what a funny... No wonder they got married a couple of years later. Katya at this time studied at the institute, and Zakhar “did business”: in fact, these were ordinary hulking work that could be found on the local word of mouth.

As time passed, the young family began to fall apart. Katie had a son, but her father didn't care about him. He has already found a more or less interesting job, and with it a new woman. Of course, all this was unofficial. But he often disappeared, left home in the middle of the night, so there was no doubt. Having made a huge effort, Katya decides to leave Zakhar and leave him to live with his parents.



A year and a half in the apartment of parents with a small child was not a fairy tale. Daily claims, quarrels and conversations “through the teeth” led to the fact that Catherine seriously decided to take up her personal life. School friends helped: introduced her to Arthur, a sweet young man who was wildly unlucky with girls.

Despite the fact that Arthur was not very tall and definitely overweight, he really loved children, did not have bad habits and earned something. Not Alain Delon, but it was impossible to stay with his parents, and Katya tried to meet him. A couple of months later, the three of them lived in his “two”, and in general everything was very decent.



The young son fell in love with his new stepfather, because he almost did not remember his real father. And Arthur is really attached to his new family. He began to work more, but this allowed them to go on vacation once every six months, often abroad. Little Leshka went to a good kindergarten, and then to the local gymnasium. Life was going well.

And then Zakhar returned to the life of not so young Catherine. As it turned out, his life was pretty messed up. The relationship did not go well, and he lived in a civil marriage for about 4 years. Then they separated, and since then nothing serious former school handsome failed to start. The work is not good, but at least he tried to stick to it. She now lives with her former mother-in-law. Apartment on the other side of town, which kept them from crossing all these years.



They met once, then there was a few more rendezvous, and Katya realized that the feelings did not cool down at all. She was irresistibly drawn to Zahar, pulled like a magnet. But she didn't stop respecting Arthur because of that. About a month later, Catherine confessed everything to her husband. He seemed to know everything. A long, sad conversation, and the matter was resolved. Suddenly, a new problem appeared, which Katya did not expect.

Alexei, who was 13 at the time, flatly refused to leave with his mother. His stepfather became closer to the boy than his mother. He did not want to meet his real father, did not even want to maintain friendly relations with him. “Mom, if you leave, then leave. I'll stay here. That was his decision and he didn’t want to change it.



Katya and Zahar live in his mother’s apartment. The old lady passed away 3 years ago. In general, Zahar is not such a bad husband: he is trying to earn something, although he turns out to be average. The wife is treated the same way. He does not try to find a common language with his son, he understands that everything is in vain. Katya now has a different moral problem. She wants her son to live with them. More than he wants to see his ex-husband. But how to return a native man does not know. After all, he is already an adult, and his attitude remained unchanged: he stopped loving his mother at about 13 years old.