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Is it necessary to “arrange Europe” and share the family budget with the wife “brotherly”?
The fashionable modern trend. budget. Especially in couples, in marriage. It is widely practiced abroad. There's even a guy and a girl who are dating, everyone in the cafe pays for themselves. The new scheme also appealed to our men - as if in a couple, married, and life is adjusted, and you are served in it, and caressed-loved properly, and the food-drinking is hot, and the sheets-pillowcases are clean. The money is in your pocket. Family budget components - No, you haven't heard...
Today’s story is about how a man wanted to make a separate budget “fair.” And the woman agreed. Only he did not immediately realize that he was on our Galya.
No one in our time is not surprised or offended by the fact that some Vanya offers his woman to live each on his shishishi. But it happens that in this simple case there are real interests and incidents.
For example, in a house or apartment to one young lady intended to settle her new boyfriend. People are not quite young anymore. Their meetings bring both joy, do not even want to part, are ready to move in and live together. My dear, since we are modern and experienced people, let’s build a separate budget in the European manner. You put your half into the household, and I do mine. All costs equal, okay? ?
At first she wondered why such difficulties were involved. The income of both is almost the same. And then I calculated, I thought, I weighed the pros and cons, and then I took it and I agreed. Now he sits and wonders how to comply with the joint budget and not to offend a man, and at the same time not to deprive himself. I have studied the topic and developed the following formulas and mandatory positions.
It is important to have time to record the current readings of meters in advance and include them in the general account, just as small household repairs, depreciation of equipment and the like.
These are also part of the family budget.
15 years ago in America conducted a curious study about how much the work of women at home, as well as raising children, if you evaluate it on the basis of existing labor market prices. In Russia, Izvestia made its own investigation. It turned out that the unappreciated work of a housewife is estimated at at least $ 3200 per month, and the “second shift” at home for a working woman is $ 3,500 per month.
Americans have confirmed that women work more than men. Mainly because they work not only in the service, but also at home, doing housework. In the course of the experiment, two types of evaluation of female labor were presented: for housewives themselves and for workers. The latter, in fact, have at the end of the working day to stand on the watch for household chores.
Housewife. Her housework well reflects the list of duties: clean the apartment, wash, iron, go to the shops and markets, cook. Quality services of a person performing the above will cost somewhere around $2,000 per month. Regarding the services of a nanny, then for a full irregular day with accommodation you will have to spend $ 1,300.
A working mother who meets with children only “in breaks” between her main job, and cleans the apartment on weekends, can be guided by hourly rates. Then the services of the housekeeper will fluctuate in 800-1200 rubles "for the exit", depending on what area of the apartment.
If there are animals in the house, the cost will be higher. Assume that professionals, as a rule, clean more than once a week. A “bachelor” case when a specialist comes to the apartment of a single male to clean up the accumulated “scumbags” (sorry for the French), will cost at least $ 50 for a one-time call.
For the services of a cook with cooking in grocery stores, an employee coming to the house will have to throw another 500 rubles. For a working lady who cooks in the mornings and evenings, that's equivalent to a lost earnings of $1,100 each month.
The hourly payment of the nanny ranges from 3 to 10 dollars per hour. It all depends on the skills, the list of services, the number of children and the work schedule. For example, a pediatrician who has undergone massage courses, walks with the child and feeds him, will cost at least 7-10 dollars per hour. The express nanny, who urgently needs to come and be with the child while the parents go about their business, will be estimated at 5-8 dollars per hour.
Working women play with their children in the so-called “overtime” hours. Therefore, their seemingly virtual earnings are estimated at $ 10 per hour. That's about $2,000 a month. And if you add cooking and cleaning, household chores for them will be in the range of 3300-3500 per month.
That's not a bad salary, is it? However, in its calculation for both housewives and women who work, a lot of other duties are not yet taken into account. Because every woman is also an administrator who controls and plans housekeeping, a stylist, makeup artist, interior designer, psychologist, educator/teacher, locksmith, nurse and so on. The services of a child psychologist alone will cost 800-1200 rubles per visit.
And the housework itself involves a lot of things, which the incoming employee must pay separately. Like washing windows. This means that in fact, the virtual salary of those who lead a household should a priori be higher.
Abroad, coziness is more expensive: American housewives could earn more than their working girlfriends. According to a study published on Salary.com. Therefore, the average salary of a housewife can be 134,121 per year, or slightly more than 11,000 dollars per month.
“Overtime” hours and their “virtual” payment are also components of the family budget and here took into account not only the hourly payment of representatives of each of these specialties, but also frequent “overtime”. What kind of housewife has her working day (day) rationed? She works an average of 91.6 hours a week, while her husband only works 45 hours a week with a 9-hour day. Where's justice? Therefore, the “basic salary” of working at home women will be 45.7 thousand per year, and “overtime” is another 88.4 thousand dollars.
A working friend has a longer working week. Despite 44 "basic" hours at her main job, she also works 49.8 hours at home. And so the virtual increase to her salary should be somewhere in the range of 85.8 thousand dollars a year.
And ideally, a man, in order to somehow balance the distribution of power and money, should help out. And it is important to look at the components of the family budget, as well as its distribution, from this angle.
And you think men and women, household budget Justified? Would you like to practice?
Today’s story is about how a man wanted to make a separate budget “fair.” And the woman agreed. Only he did not immediately realize that he was on our Galya.
No one in our time is not surprised or offended by the fact that some Vanya offers his woman to live each on his shishishi. But it happens that in this simple case there are real interests and incidents.
For example, in a house or apartment to one young lady intended to settle her new boyfriend. People are not quite young anymore. Their meetings bring both joy, do not even want to part, are ready to move in and live together. My dear, since we are modern and experienced people, let’s build a separate budget in the European manner. You put your half into the household, and I do mine. All costs equal, okay? ?
At first she wondered why such difficulties were involved. The income of both is almost the same. And then I calculated, I thought, I weighed the pros and cons, and then I took it and I agreed. Now he sits and wonders how to comply with the joint budget and not to offend a man, and at the same time not to deprive himself. I have studied the topic and developed the following formulas and mandatory positions.
- Sale of vegetables from your garden or there are different crafts (knitted socks, for example) will be carried out to a man at average market prices.
- The use of the basement / storage room with jams, pickles, pickled and dried mushrooms will be carried out for a separate fee. However, here you can still buy a kind of subscription with a discount, especially if you use it often.
- Household service: washing a man's things and washing dishes after him, ironing clothes and, if necessary, cooking dishes to order. All according to the price list established and approved by both partners.
- Products that are in the fridge at the time of the man’s arrival should be described and accounted for as the woman’s total property.
It is important to have time to record the current readings of meters in advance and include them in the general account, just as small household repairs, depreciation of equipment and the like.
These are also part of the family budget.
15 years ago in America conducted a curious study about how much the work of women at home, as well as raising children, if you evaluate it on the basis of existing labor market prices. In Russia, Izvestia made its own investigation. It turned out that the unappreciated work of a housewife is estimated at at least $ 3200 per month, and the “second shift” at home for a working woman is $ 3,500 per month.
Americans have confirmed that women work more than men. Mainly because they work not only in the service, but also at home, doing housework. In the course of the experiment, two types of evaluation of female labor were presented: for housewives themselves and for workers. The latter, in fact, have at the end of the working day to stand on the watch for household chores.
Housewife. Her housework well reflects the list of duties: clean the apartment, wash, iron, go to the shops and markets, cook. Quality services of a person performing the above will cost somewhere around $2,000 per month. Regarding the services of a nanny, then for a full irregular day with accommodation you will have to spend $ 1,300.
A working mother who meets with children only “in breaks” between her main job, and cleans the apartment on weekends, can be guided by hourly rates. Then the services of the housekeeper will fluctuate in 800-1200 rubles "for the exit", depending on what area of the apartment.
If there are animals in the house, the cost will be higher. Assume that professionals, as a rule, clean more than once a week. A “bachelor” case when a specialist comes to the apartment of a single male to clean up the accumulated “scumbags” (sorry for the French), will cost at least $ 50 for a one-time call.
For the services of a cook with cooking in grocery stores, an employee coming to the house will have to throw another 500 rubles. For a working lady who cooks in the mornings and evenings, that's equivalent to a lost earnings of $1,100 each month.
The hourly payment of the nanny ranges from 3 to 10 dollars per hour. It all depends on the skills, the list of services, the number of children and the work schedule. For example, a pediatrician who has undergone massage courses, walks with the child and feeds him, will cost at least 7-10 dollars per hour. The express nanny, who urgently needs to come and be with the child while the parents go about their business, will be estimated at 5-8 dollars per hour.
Working women play with their children in the so-called “overtime” hours. Therefore, their seemingly virtual earnings are estimated at $ 10 per hour. That's about $2,000 a month. And if you add cooking and cleaning, household chores for them will be in the range of 3300-3500 per month.
That's not a bad salary, is it? However, in its calculation for both housewives and women who work, a lot of other duties are not yet taken into account. Because every woman is also an administrator who controls and plans housekeeping, a stylist, makeup artist, interior designer, psychologist, educator/teacher, locksmith, nurse and so on. The services of a child psychologist alone will cost 800-1200 rubles per visit.
And the housework itself involves a lot of things, which the incoming employee must pay separately. Like washing windows. This means that in fact, the virtual salary of those who lead a household should a priori be higher.
Abroad, coziness is more expensive: American housewives could earn more than their working girlfriends. According to a study published on Salary.com. Therefore, the average salary of a housewife can be 134,121 per year, or slightly more than 11,000 dollars per month.
“Overtime” hours and their “virtual” payment are also components of the family budget and here took into account not only the hourly payment of representatives of each of these specialties, but also frequent “overtime”. What kind of housewife has her working day (day) rationed? She works an average of 91.6 hours a week, while her husband only works 45 hours a week with a 9-hour day. Where's justice? Therefore, the “basic salary” of working at home women will be 45.7 thousand per year, and “overtime” is another 88.4 thousand dollars.
A working friend has a longer working week. Despite 44 "basic" hours at her main job, she also works 49.8 hours at home. And so the virtual increase to her salary should be somewhere in the range of 85.8 thousand dollars a year.
And ideally, a man, in order to somehow balance the distribution of power and money, should help out. And it is important to look at the components of the family budget, as well as its distribution, from this angle.
And you think men and women, household budget Justified? Would you like to practice?
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