What are the traces of lipstick on the mask?

Vile. cheating A real blow to any woman. Someone copes with this quickly and even forgives their loved one. Some people take years to do that. But what if there was actually a banal misunderstanding in the relationship?



One of our readers shared with us a very unusual story that happened to him this summer. And it is connected, to think only, with an ordinary medical mask. In addition, at the end of the article, we will share 5 tips with you. How to survive the betrayal of a loved one. It'll be interesting!

A friend of mine once asked me to go with him on business. We live in the suburbs and, although quarantine restrictions are not so strict, we try not to get out often. But this time I said yes. It was not far away, and it was calmer in my car. I warned the girl that it would not be possible to meet today, and we rushed.



© Freepik It was nearing the evening, but it was still quite hot. We didn’t want to turn on the air conditioner, so we opened the windows. What could be better than the smell of a fresh summer evening? In the car played Kavinsky - Nightcall. At that moment I was calm and happy. But at some point I began to feel terrible discomfort. I think I ventilated my lips. They started baking, got dry. “Dim, let’s go to the city and go to the store to buy some sanitary lipstick, okay?” “No problem. Just pick up Marinka on the way, she asked to drop her off on a date, my friend replied.



© Freepik Strange request, of course, but why not? Someone on a date, and someone hygienic fudge. Everything in life happens... I knew Marina for a long time, but I never really talked to her. When she got in the car, I had an epiphany. To tolerate the pain of the lips was simply not. So I asked if she had lipstick. “There is no hygienic, but there is a regular one, will it fit?” – Marina answered with some irony. And I was so sick that I was ready to smear anything. "What color?" I asked. "Nud," sniffed Marinka. Hmm, nood... In English, the word nude means naked. I think this lipstick would fit me.



© Freepik Hooch, smeared, and it seemed to be easier. Yay! The guys offered to come to the gas station to drink coffee. “Do you all have masks?” he asked. "Of course," the guys replied. We took Americano, talked a little. Then Dima took Marinka on a date, and we finished everything and went home.

The next day, my girlfriend came to visit me. We decided to skimp on the grocery store and cook a delicious dinner. As we walked to the store, Anya said she had forgotten her mask. But I always carried a few things with me. I give her mine, she takes her with gratitude. Within a few seconds, her eyes changed.



© Freepik "Pash, why is your lipstick mask on?" Whose is she? she asked Anne. What lipstick? Oh, this one! This is Marina’s lipstick, I answered without hesitation. The pause that followed my words seemed like an eternity. Anya didn't even want to listen to my whole story about winded lips, Dimka, gas station, coffee and Marina's date. And it all sounds ridiculous... I've been trying to reach Ani for weeks. But she didn't want to believe me. I don’t know what bothered her more: a certain Marina or the fact that I put lipstick on my lips. Umora! I let go of the situation and accepted the fact that we were breaking up. Yes, very stupid and partly unfair. However, you will not be violently nice...



© Freepik I just couldn't help but share everything that was happening with Dimka. And for some reason I thought that Marina would be interested to know what led her lipstick color “nude”. We met and talked over a cup of coffee. And the next day, Marina texted me, “Would you like to see me?” I also have other lipstick... It's been almost 2 months. Anya never got in touch, and we're fine with Marina. Maybe that's destiny.



From the editorial board, this story is very instructive. First, it shows what simple things can do. A misunderstanding that occurred in the relationship. And how important it is to give a person a chance to just explain, which, unfortunately, the girl of the main character did not do. Secondly, we want to draw your attention to the fact that under no circumstances should you give another person your protective mask. Of course, this does not concern our topic directly. However, remember that it is not safe.

How to survive betrayal Psychologists recommend unleash your tears and emotions. If you accumulate negativity in yourself, you will get worse. Free your apartment from anything that might remind you of your ex. Find a new occupation that will distract you from bad thoughts. Women and girls often benefit from sports in all its forms.



Change something about your appearance. This can be not only the same caret after the breakup, but also a new elegant dress or hair color. Don't be afraid to start. new acquaintancesThey do not oblige you to anything. Also, try to help someone who needs you. For example, homeless animals in their yard. Taking care of others will help you.

Whatever happens, it is important to remember that cheating - it's not the end of the world. In any incomprehensible situation, you first need to talk to your loved one. Listen to him and not jump to conclusions. After all, any problem in a relationship begins with a banal understatement.

What do you think of such an unusual story of our subscriber? Would you give him a second chance? It will be interesting to read your comments!