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What if children do not want to take their parents on vacation?
Parents are always parents. Even when a child has their own family and children, parents want to be there. Why? To help, to tell, and just to be around. Some moms and dads even manage to do it. holiday An adult child should be held together. Although this idea is not always successful.
Long planned to go to rest on the sea with her son, daughter-in-law and 3-year-old grandson. We talked in the spring and discussed everything. I have been looking forward to this moment... And then they tell me they changed their mind! They will, but without me. We can handle the baby ourselves. Can you imagine? – Natalia Petrovna indignant.
“I was just being taken aback. How come? I spent so much time thinking about this vacation, saving money, going to have a good rest. I would watch the baby while they rest. Take him to the zoo or on a tour, show him the mountains and the sea.
And the son just called and said that he and Tanya thought and decided to go without me. Maybe we’ll go together another time. But why didn't Tanya tell me anything?
I called my sister-in-law, but she said they just changed their mind. That's all. Is that what happens? After all, we haven’t quarreled lately, even got along well, I think. Everything was peaceful and calm.”
“The voyage to the sea will now have to be postponed indefinitely. I'm not going, there's no mood. My daughter-in-law and my son are now hurt. Is it possible to do this as they do? an elderly woman complains.
Of course, there is nothing pleasant about the fact that vacation plans have collapsed. However, Natalia Petrovna should accept this situation and draw conclusions. Perhaps for her son’s family this holiday is as long-awaited, so they want to spend it the way they want.
No matter how good the relationship was, but for the daughter-in-law Natalia Petrovna remains just a mother-in-law. And to spend a vacation with your mother-in-law on the sea is hardly what many young women dream of.
Therefore offend In this situation, it's a bad choice. It is better to talk friends or friends to go on vacation in good company, while there is still such an opportunity this year. The money has already been put aside. Why deny yourself pleasure?
As a result, the son and family will have a good time, rest from everyday worries. And Natalia Petrovna will not have to look after her restless grandson endlessly. After all, a 3-year-old child probably needs eyes and eyes.
Interesting and fulfilling life Possible at any age. And there are quite interesting people with whom you can have a good time. But to be offended, impose and try to see more often with loved ones who want to take a break from you is not the best idea.
Long planned to go to rest on the sea with her son, daughter-in-law and 3-year-old grandson. We talked in the spring and discussed everything. I have been looking forward to this moment... And then they tell me they changed their mind! They will, but without me. We can handle the baby ourselves. Can you imagine? – Natalia Petrovna indignant.
“I was just being taken aback. How come? I spent so much time thinking about this vacation, saving money, going to have a good rest. I would watch the baby while they rest. Take him to the zoo or on a tour, show him the mountains and the sea.
And the son just called and said that he and Tanya thought and decided to go without me. Maybe we’ll go together another time. But why didn't Tanya tell me anything?
I called my sister-in-law, but she said they just changed their mind. That's all. Is that what happens? After all, we haven’t quarreled lately, even got along well, I think. Everything was peaceful and calm.”
“The voyage to the sea will now have to be postponed indefinitely. I'm not going, there's no mood. My daughter-in-law and my son are now hurt. Is it possible to do this as they do? an elderly woman complains.
Of course, there is nothing pleasant about the fact that vacation plans have collapsed. However, Natalia Petrovna should accept this situation and draw conclusions. Perhaps for her son’s family this holiday is as long-awaited, so they want to spend it the way they want.
No matter how good the relationship was, but for the daughter-in-law Natalia Petrovna remains just a mother-in-law. And to spend a vacation with your mother-in-law on the sea is hardly what many young women dream of.
Therefore offend In this situation, it's a bad choice. It is better to talk friends or friends to go on vacation in good company, while there is still such an opportunity this year. The money has already been put aside. Why deny yourself pleasure?
As a result, the son and family will have a good time, rest from everyday worries. And Natalia Petrovna will not have to look after her restless grandson endlessly. After all, a 3-year-old child probably needs eyes and eyes.
Interesting and fulfilling life Possible at any age. And there are quite interesting people with whom you can have a good time. But to be offended, impose and try to see more often with loved ones who want to take a break from you is not the best idea.
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