Why many women regret the effort spent on children Bashny.Net

Not every woman, having a child, admits that in fact he did not want and did not plan. And if he does, he will certainly get a lot of judgmental looks. The question of whether to have children, now begin to ask themselves more often. Let’s look at all aspects of this life.

Recently, several surveys were conducted among women who already have children. Of course, the names were not specified so that women could feel safe and give the most frank answers. The essence of these surveys was to find out how many mothers regret their decision to have a child. The results were impressive, as the percentage was extremely high.



During the interview, the mothers admitted that their lives would have been much more successful and happier if they had decided not to have a child. However, every mother said that she loved her child and could not imagine her life without it.



It seems to me that the critical mistake that many people make is to think of motherhood as something easy. That's not true. Being a parent is difficult, and it’s not just about the financial side of the issue, but also about the mental aspects. Not everyone can stand this test, especially without outside support. This is important and must be recognized.



The ingratitude of children who have grown up often leads to thoughts about the correctness of their decision. However, it is this aspect that best illustrates that one should not succumb to social pressure. After all, many have children because of annoying relatives and their notorious “who will give you water in old age?”



It is worthwhile to carefully analyze all your resources when thinking about a child. And not just financial! Are you willing to let someone out of your life without asking for anything in return? And that's exactly how it should be. Our children do not choose to be born or not. This is our decision and we have no right to demand anything from them.



Of course, there is nothing shameful if you, having assessed your capabilities and desires, decide to wait a little or not give birth at all. It's fair to yourself and your hypothetical child. After all, it is not very fair if you want to give birth in order to get some benefit for yourself.



We release children into the world, trying to give them the best, instilling love in them and making them happy. If everything is right, then this mother gets incredible pleasure. It is important to understand in time whether you are ready to share your resources and invest yourself in this difficult business.