How a person behaves that creates their own well-being

Well-being in life What every normal person wants. No one wants decades to struggle unsuccessfully for a place in the sun, to live in poverty and to suffer failure after failure. But what do you need to do to achieve this well-being?

Experts believe that the recipe for success is not in starting conditions, not in useful connections, not in education and not even in great talents. It's all about human behavior. How he behaves, that is how his fate unfolds. How strong is that connection?



Practicing psychologist Anna Kiryanova is sure that if a person behaves as befits a prosperous person, then sooner or later he will find prosperity. After all, human behavior is his way of interacting with the world and people around him.



And if a person plays a role for a long time, it will inevitably influence him. For example, a person may not consider themselves a bully and may deny that they are a bully.

However, if he behaves like a bully, if he conflicts with others and breaks the law, sooner or later he will get what he deserves. Will be without work and without the support of close people. He'll get a fine or even go to jail.

A person will behave like a drunkard, will regularly drink and spend the last money on booze - also in the end will get what he deserves. Even if he doesn’t think he’s a drunk, he’ll be. And health will be harmed, and social status will be shaken. It's a matter of time.



The way a person behaves directly affects their future. Every action, every word, every thought contributes to the formation of a person and determines the kind of life he will live in the future.

Of course, if you just pretend to be happy or rich, it is unlikely that anything will work. After all, in addition to a certain pattern of behavior, you also need to feel appropriate. But instilling a model of behavior of a decent and prosperous person is quite simple. And soon it will give the desired result.



What rules of behavior bring about well-being

1. No complaints about life Each complaint is not only a manifestation of a person’s weakness, but also an indicator of his wrong attitude towards himself and his life. When a person complains, he wastes energy, feels unhappy and helpless. As a result, circumstances will develop so that the grounds for complaints will only increase.
   
   You should not complain. Stop every time you want to scold an unfortunate coincidence. After all, each situation can be considered from different sides. And instead of pointless complaints, you can find a constructive solution to understand what can be done better.
   
   
   
   
   
   
2. Assistance to others Only a happy person can share. It doesn’t matter what you can offer others. Even if you eat a bun in the park on a bench and share crumbs with pigeons. When you give regularly, circumstances develop so that there is something to give and share.
   
   
3. Defend, but don't attack. A well-off person can protect himself or herself and even has to do so. There is no need to be aggressive towards others. Do not interfere in other people’s affairs, violate borders or try to devalue others’ successes. This is the fate of disadvantaged people. Don't turn that path.
   
   
   
   
   
   

Simple rules, but they instill the right behavior. And well-being in the life of such a person does not arise by chance. It will be the result of his thoughts, words and actions. And a completely natural result.