10 situations that you may regret later Bashny.Net

Humans are unique creatures.

First, they do stupid things, then regret the wasted time, but they say that to change anything would not, after all, did what I wanted.

Nonsense is nice, because instant gratification is so appealing. To justify them is also nice, because it doesn't cause negative feelings.

Not to do neither the one nor the other, need right now to reflect, what do you see yourself in 5 years, and perform their identity. If the current work of the hated and always wanted to do something else when you want to start? Don't be fooled: even if it is not possible to change employment right now need to live each day so that in the end do what you always dreamed of. You can feel sorry for and about relationships with other people and that did not allocate time for self-development.





In short, it's time to look at ourselves:

1. Wear a mask to impress the otherRules of behavior in society are there for a reason, they want us to turn into animals in the worst sense of the word. However, it is possible to bend and eventually become a hypocrite.

The desire to impress others — this is normal, we all want that, even if not recognized. Case in methods.

Do not wear any masks. Be nice, don't say everything that comes to mind, but be yourself.

2. To allow others to make choices for you Life and people always need something and this is normal. Abnormally that query is so much that in the end the decision just to go with the flow. Sometimes it's good. For example, when you are invited to the pleasant company. But most often it does not bring any joy and use.

Remember that you have the right to refuse. And you have the right to refuse also. Learn how to communicate effectively with people and to find the approach even to those who are trying to waste your time.

3. To keep bad Company from the environment is different in that first we spend time consciously. In fact, it may be a hostage of circumstances.

Find out if your values to those promoted in the company. And if not, then make the right conclusions.

4. To be cynical and selfish That attracts only some people living on the planet. They have achieved a lot and can afford similar. All the rest the cynics and the selfish become not from good life. They may be too simple a concept. Such words as "honor", "love", "friendship" and "kindness" they have short definitions. The narrow-mindedness that is not so simple.

Man can betray a loved man and he will think that friendship does not exist, although actually there is no friendship between him and that person only. Cynicism repels and is given for high intelligence.

Develop several types of thinking, to think bigger.

5. To avoid changes and growth that you are laying right now will be the basis after 5 years. And if now you are avoiding growth and change, much of a difference a few years can not see. Develop new habits and skills, it is quite possible that soon will earn several times more.

6. To complete its Not worth it to continue on something to work, if you see that there is no sense of perspective. However, in many cases we are engaged in self-deception and trying to convince myself that something is necessary, but only useless wasted time and potential.





7. Trying to control even the little things Control yourself, your reactions and thoughts, but the rest is not always necessary. Why it is possible to regret? The desire to control the little things leads to stress, anxiety and even depression.

8. To get less than they deserve For a start, ask yourself: "What do I deserve?". Not to be confused with the question "What do I want?" after all, there is a fundamental difference.

If you feel that you deserve more, then do everything you can to find a job where you will get more opportunities. And, of course, is constantly evolving.

9. Always wait for tomorrow This habit is so rooted that always leads to the same thought: "we Need to do this sometime." If you feel that something should be done, do it today.

10. To be lazy Laziness is also a habit, the results of which will be clearly visible in a few years. Especially if you compare your results with the results of people who had the same opportunities. Physical and intellectual laziness kills your near future. published

 

P. S. And remember, just changing your mind — together we change the world! ©

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