Live mercury: a cheat sheet for parents of children-choleric

If you are very tired from your child while he is healthy physically and neurologically, then, it is most likely a choleric.

The choleric is not just alive, he is UNRESTRAINED. This temperament is extremely manifested excitement. In childhood it greatly so that the child-choleric is often want to show not a psychologist and neuropsychiatrist or psychiatrist. They have age anxiety to four and a half, five years is very high, plus the temperament of the adds, and it's just mercury.





So the chassis and neurological characteristics of the choleric: quick, excitable, unstable. While still a strong type of higher nervous activity, very unbalanced in their peak conditions. It is about the choleric is often said that it is a BLAST. This limit extroversion. They are very impulsive, very active, very productive, they have a million emotions. They are always talking and talking fast. They want a constant response to himself. They must constantly be in action, with physical action, too, if they are small.

In the preschool childhood is the most TEDIOUS temperament.

In choleric quick response. Sometimes very fast and expressive speech. This can be a good rate of speech radio. But when hot-headed tired and overexcited, it's such a stream of words, which is almost impossible to stop. And that is the pace of speech is also very easy to identify the choleric. When they fatigue easier than other kids, get excited and become UNCONTROLLABLE.

They are very bright, incredibly talented, but also very uncomfortable, because it's impossible to keep up. Often even an adult hot-headed no time for hot-headed-child.

The child-choleric will often cry, fuss, and while he talks good, this will happen most often. The child-choleric overexcited. And from a large number of events becomes very fast, but it is exactly those children who have a drama club, club photo, and they want more artistic gymnastics and synchronized swimming, and it seems that they like everything that they have. But by evening the child-choleric is not able to sleep, and he begins to appear hesitation in speech, for example.

The child-choleric is ahead, and choleric-the babies — the babies inconvenient, because they always need animation. They have a need in the flow of impressions is higher than all other temperaments. An unbalanced excitation provides that until a child can speak, he often expresses it in a non-verbal way. Until they became hysterical, they will try to go ahead and to succeed.

The tenacity of a few more hot-headed than the persistence of the phlegmatic. The tenacity of the choleric is not sustainable, is not balanced — more hysterical. They are very easy to fall into hysterics, everything. And to achieve all of also like through a tantrum. That is three to four years a child with a choleric temperament are likely to be frequent periodic TANTRUMS.

Of course, they are, first and foremost, great ARTISTS. Almost all choleric incredibly strong demonstrative component. Hot-headed works to the public. For any audience, if only she was there. Choleric has a very short fuse, if there are two kinds of audience and their need to entertain in different ways. For example, at the same time entertain the Pope, whom he sees rarely, and grandmother, who he sees even less. Here in choleric can be hysterical.





The more audience, the more applause and ovations, the stronger the child will be the demonstrative component to develop. And they are explosive. This is another quality temperament: the explosion can be completely in a glass of water, on an empty place, and the energy of this BIG BANG can knock even an adult hot-headed.

To turn off the explosions, not yet Mature nervous system, is almost impossible. They can learn how to gently avoid, like mines on the field. They can learn a little bit to soften. You need to understand that, even though the energy of the big Bang and strong, it is not the temperament that will long remain in a negative state.

If the hot-headed to help, he will be quickly forgotten, and the explosion will come to an end. The task of adults — through routine, through sustainable ways of responding, through support, through a neutral time to help the child to reduce either the severity of outbreaks or their frequency. But some of the outbreaks still remains, because it is a sign of temperament.

 



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As a rule, choleric in force here is that his irrepressible temperament, are more developed than their peers. They know more. They are better say. They may appear too early to phrase it in a year and a half, the child can speak phrases. With a distinct diction. And if you try not to let that feeling of guilt that you put society, and to be fixed on the merits you in your child a very different picture, because the choleric is really bright birds. And important, I think, a very important thing is to protect the hot-headed from unnecessary overloads.published

 

Author: Ekaterina Burmistrova

 



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