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What will be the child of the child, and so will be its future
If you ask any person with children, if he loves his child, he will surely say Yes. If you ask the question: "How do you think, whether you educate your child?", most parents will answer "Yes."
Childhood is the period when personality is formed, and what plants will be laid, so it will grow.
Very often parents instill children complexes, pointing out the defects and comparing their children with other children.
For example, a mother tells her daughter that she is overweight and that the dresses she wants to wear, she doesn't go. A girl from an early age will begin to feel embarrassed about your body, not to take it and not love. And mom only had to adjust the power of the daughter and not the child to form complexes.
Consider another example. The son, by participating in the competition, took second place, and the father instead of rejoicing in the success of the child, indicates that a son, trained a little, worked little, and there's someone better.
If the boy takes the first place, then they deserve approval. In the future, the child will be assumed that all the love must be earned and it can't love just.
The above-described cases, it is a simple routine, and it may well be that parents behave in this manner out of love to the children.
For example, the mother wants the daughter began to eat properly, to dress in more beautiful and suitable dresses, and dad wants to raise a winner, to the son from early childhood felt the taste of victory and not lose it throughout the life.
The motive is good, but you also need to properly convey to the child. Wrong tactics adults can give impetus to the development in children of self-doubt from a very early age.
Dear parents, all that a child needs from you is love, unconditional love. You loved and accepted for who he is, praised and supported throughout and encouraged. It is better to "perelyub" than "nedolyubili" better "to praise" rather than "nedovolil". What will be your child's childhood, so will the future remember this, please. published
Author: Jeanne MacIan
P. S. And remember, only by changing their consumption — together we change the world! ©
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Source: Jeanne MacIan
Childhood is the period when personality is formed, and what plants will be laid, so it will grow.
Very often parents instill children complexes, pointing out the defects and comparing their children with other children.
For example, a mother tells her daughter that she is overweight and that the dresses she wants to wear, she doesn't go. A girl from an early age will begin to feel embarrassed about your body, not to take it and not love. And mom only had to adjust the power of the daughter and not the child to form complexes.
Consider another example. The son, by participating in the competition, took second place, and the father instead of rejoicing in the success of the child, indicates that a son, trained a little, worked little, and there's someone better.
If the boy takes the first place, then they deserve approval. In the future, the child will be assumed that all the love must be earned and it can't love just.
The above-described cases, it is a simple routine, and it may well be that parents behave in this manner out of love to the children.
For example, the mother wants the daughter began to eat properly, to dress in more beautiful and suitable dresses, and dad wants to raise a winner, to the son from early childhood felt the taste of victory and not lose it throughout the life.
The motive is good, but you also need to properly convey to the child. Wrong tactics adults can give impetus to the development in children of self-doubt from a very early age.
Dear parents, all that a child needs from you is love, unconditional love. You loved and accepted for who he is, praised and supported throughout and encouraged. It is better to "perelyub" than "nedolyubili" better "to praise" rather than "nedovolil". What will be your child's childhood, so will the future remember this, please. published
Author: Jeanne MacIan
P. S. And remember, only by changing their consumption — together we change the world! ©
Join us in Facebook , Vkontakte, Odnoklassniki
Source: Jeanne MacIan
