In our society, loving stereotypes and "labels", often talk about the "horrible" crisis forty years and about the crisis fifty years in women.
In this regard, it is necessary to clarify many aspects, for example when the menopause starts.
But we are of the opinion that
every age is beautiful — if a person has active position in life, courage and enthusiasm.
Fifty years is a wonderful age, the age when there were many important events.
So women, even though it may seem ridiculous, perceive it as adolescence, the age of maturity, when there are experienced a rollercoaster of hormonal and personality changes, but the "belt fastened", head clear and heart full of illusions.
50 is not the new 25: fifty, and they can be proud of
“Forty is the new 20, and fifty is the new 25”. Another questionable phrase that we often hear.
- Fifty — not twenty-five, and never will be, because the woman is not going to abandon what she had experienced and learned. She had no need nor desire to return to their twenty-five, because she's armed with her experience.
These twenty-five for her as a rival, tough and beautiful, and she's glad she has it.
- Another aspect that you need to keep in mind is that at this age, happiness is associated with acceptance (of yourself, others, life).
We take care of themselves, care about their appearance, trying to look attractive, but
in a woman of fifty there is no need to look like in twenty years.
If she wants it and tries to look like is for her a constant source of suffering.
Fifty and the problem of "hormonal horrors"
Karen Glazer, a sociologist from king's College London (United Kingdom), describes in his work the situation of contemporary women, including the phenomenon of menopause.
- Women give birth all their children at a later age. Thus, it often turns out that a fifty female teenagers.
- To menopause, with all its hormonal changes, illnesses, asthma, insomnia, irregular moods, added interaction with the teenage son, who is in that state of hormonal chaos.
Efforts, attempts to harmonize the reality associated with this experience you can write about this book.
Each woman experiences this phase, and, of course, this path is not strewn with roses.
We can look terrific, but the declining estrogen levels. The skin loses its elasticity, there is laxity, fatigue, noticeable hair loss...
It's a tough fight that must be waged every day.
Of course, this is not a new twenty-five years, because women have to fight with their teenagers, take care of them, not forgetting to take care of yourself.
Fifty becomes less doubt and confidence
Many women for fifty years, experienced a complicated and crucial phase of his life: a divorce.
- To start a new phase of their lives alone or together with his or her minor children this situation has become quite common. Many, moreover, do not have sufficient funds, but with this situation they somehow manage.
- In this age there is no doubts, but there is a clear understanding about yourself, about what you want and what you deserve. Acquired in a lifetime experience gives you confidence and a certain sense of security.
- It's time to trust your intuition and do something new.
At this age there is a reassessment of values and priorities
At a younger age in women in the foreground a husband, children, but for fifty years there is an opportunity to think about myself.
In her mind there is a reassessment of values, a new equilibrium is reached stabiliziruemost self-esteem, aktualisierte dreams that could not be implemented.
You look at yourself as a "ripe fruit" slightly "beaten by life". But remember that this fruit is always sweeter and more flavorful than green.
Whatever your age, remember that the best time is always "now".
Also interesting: the Age and the body: when you are 50+
Yes, I'm 50 — it's time to start living!
Therefore do not cease to take care of yourself, try to pursue their dreams and satisfy needs. And give (and receive from) the happy moments to those around you.published
P. S. And remember, just changing your mind — together we change the world! ©
Source: steptohealth.ru/pyatdesyat-prekrasnyj-vozrast-dlya-zhenshhiny/