1. Do not expect that your child will be as you or the same as you want. Help him to become not you, as a.
2. Do not ask the child payment for all that you did for him. You gave him life as he can thank you? He will give life to another, one - third, and this is an irreversible law of gratitude.
3. Do not vent their grievances on the child to old age is not a bitter bread. For what you sow, so shall ascend.
4. Do not take it down problems. Life is given to each according to his powers and, rest assured, it is hard not less than you, and maybe even more, because he has no experience.
5. Do not humiliate.
6. Do not forget that the most important meeting of man - this is his meeting with the children. Pay more attention to them, because God himself visits the parents in their children.
7. Do not torture yourself, if you can not do something for their child. Torment, if you can - but does not. Remember, for a child done enough, if you do not do everything.
8. The child - it is not a tyrant who takes possession of your whole life, not just the fruit flesh and blood. This is the precious cup that God gave you for safekeeping and development of creative fire in it. Remember that parents do not grow "our", "their" child, but the soul, this deposit.
9. Know how to love someone else's child. Never do something someone else did not want them to do to your.
10. Love your child anything - untalented, unsuccessful, adults. Communicating with him - Rejoice, because the child - it is a holiday, which is still with you