And do not even notice etogo.Kerol Morgan, a practicing psychologist and teacher, asked his readers two questions: who they wanted to be a child and whether they fulfilled a dream? For those who answered in the negative, it allocated 13 signs that life is passing.
Website I advise everyone to read the article by Carol. In the end, it's just one more reason to be a little bit happier.
1. You spend too much time on things that do not stoyatVideoigry. TV. Online. A lot of food. A lot of alcohol. The list goes on. Take a look at your life seriously. Where do you spend most of your time? It brings you a favor? This leads you to a better life? If not, you need to review your daily activities and make changes.
2. You know zhaluetesYa many people who are constantly dissatisfied with life, and they never stop talking about it. Are you one of them? You complain about your job, your boss, your salary, your neighbors, or your spouse? If so, you do not change, but only spread negative energy around them. Complaints are driving you to a dead end. Try to talk about what you like, not what you do not like, and the result will not take long.
3. You do not eat your umEsli you are not growing and is not developing as a person, you stagnate - just like a quiet pond, which is delayed in the absence of mud flow. It happens with your mind, if you do not keep it active and learn new things. Problems and tests only harden and train your mind.
4. You are driving the negative inner dialogue dialogVnutrenny can be life-changing for you. As Henry Ford said: "No matter what you think - can you do it or not, anyway, you're right." If you tell yourself that you are not smart enough to get a promotion or to start a business - it's true. If you tell yourself that you are too tired to change - it's true. Whatever you said to yourself, it becomes your reality. Keep your thoughts under control, and life will begin to meet them.
5. You do not feel vdohnoveniyaU you have passion for something? I know many people who think that they have no passion. But it does not happen. There must be something that you love to do. Try to discover something really exciting, and do it as much as possible.
6. Do you plan your buduscheeKonechno, wonderful live "today" and "enjoy the moment", but sometimes you have to look forward, to see where you want to come. If you have no purpose or plan, you're like a boat that is drifting aimlessly in the ocean, hoping to be somewhere in a good location. Agree, it's silly to wait for it. Just as GPS guides you to your destination, you need your own internal GPS, which will lead you.
7. Do you spend too much time with people who do not contribute to your rostuLegko stuck hanging out with people who do not make you better. Next to them, you will always remain at the same level. Such "friends" can be called "energy vampires." They suck the life out of you and do not give anything positive in return. Surround yourself with people-oriented growth to become one of them.
8. Are you addicted to your telefonaBessporno, modern cell phones - it's cool device capable of completely enchant any of us. But just think how much time you spend on your favorite "toy"? And what kind of relationship can suffer from it? Are you one of those who writes SMS and hangs on the Internet, dining out with the family? Then you just lose precious moments of intimacy - or those moments that you can devote to planning for the future.
9. Do you spend money on unnecessary veschiSuschestvuet difference between "I must" and "I want." I think we all know it is still in kindergarten. However, in modern society, the boundaries are blurred (see item 8). I know a lot of people who are mired in the credits, but they are always in the hands of the latest models of electronic gadgets. But in actual fact, we need not so much: the food, water, shelter and a loved one close. Everything else - just bonusy.Tak look at what you spend your money, and it is clear, if you can make changes.
10. You do not vysypaetesYa not a doctor, but have read enough books to know about the life-giving power of sleep. Sleep is essential for good health. If you are too busy to sleep, or just have a bad habit to stay awake until three o'clock in the morning, then it is time to rethink their priorities.
11. You do not care about your Thelen as important to your health food and sports. Yes, I understand that you did not say anything new. But the positive effects of a balanced diet and exercise is not limited to weight loss. Improve and your mental condition and overall health. Start with small changes in diet and activity level, and you wonder how it will affect the quality of your life.
12. You do not get out of your comfort zone know how easy it is to live in a comfort zone. When I go to a familiar restaurant, I always order the same dish. No, not because I'm afraid to try something new, and because I love the food, which is usually ordered. But this is not a comfort zone, I'm talking about. I'm talking about how to take risks, the ability to improve your life. And also keep in mind that there is a difference between "risk" and "calculated risk." Any risk is possible to be fatal, but a calculated risk - one in which you have weighed all the options, and thus have come up with a good, sensible plan of action.
13. You live the life that you do not nravitsyaUspeshnost I always measure the level of happiness. Are you really happy? If not, then it's time to change something. Even the feeling of satisfaction is not to say that you live a full life. Do everything you can to make it exciting and brings you pleasure.
If any of these 13 points about you, do not despair. You can always make a change. But the first thing you have to do - get rid of the idea that you can not change anything. Most often the biggest obstacle is your own way of thinking. So start with him. Changing the mindset, change lives.