The big difference in age, the "pros" and "cons". Bashny.Net

In our century the trend of unequal marriages back on your age and financial status. Young girls are increasingly making the choice to adults, standing firmly on his feet men. In turn, the rich, adult ladies give their preference to younger, healthy, full of life force and sexual partners.
On the advantages and disadvantages:
The man who took the couple to a young girl with a difference of twenty years or more, managed to score quite a few life experiences, financial well-being, "was done on", "otduril" and can efficiently and placement to approach marriage with all the warmth, tolerance and the base.
Young passion is warm "father's" hand, makes it possible to feel always beautiful, cherished, loved, and the main thing is the caring that she can give an adult a spouse compared with only her childhood memories, a young woman gets last financial stability, security and predictability.
In turn, the mature man feeding a young blood, there is a significant surge of life and sexual forces in anticipation of the second wave of youth, he can rightly realize their dreams unlived past: rich house, a young wife, expensive cognac, philosophical arguments, i.t .P.
Pitfalls on their life path or difficulties entail significant difference in age?
Despite the fact that unequal marriages have proved as very strong and durable, they are not without problems and difficulties. Sex is perhaps the first stone of which will face the couple. Sexual appetite of women over the years, gaining momentum, while the man, in contrast, suffer extinction.
The next stone, the activity, the young girl soon opostyleet whole age predictability, accuracy and measured, she wants fun, unrestrained bright, rich in content day. But it half all the more eager to lie down, sit, stay home. Then friends and interests, the greater the age gap between spouses, the further they are from each other in their preferences.
And what about the back story in which a woman much older than his chosen?
Goodies for her clear, youthful body, shine in the eyes, unbridled energy, this is what starts to tremble and makes a woman's heart. Advantages of the young men in maternal care, women's wisdom, sexual experience, and also that a lot of important financial stability of women. And if we talk about sad things, then of course the first thing we note is a woman psychological discomfort, fear not correspond to the young couple, fear of being abandoned, used, is not necessary. Endless jealousy and suspicion can ruin even the most seemingly harmonious relationship. As a young chosen one, the men often admit that they were aware of the "temporary happiness" and its master plan, built on a young wife in the future.
Summing up the conclusions of happy and sad, not to mention the fact that having to pay for everything, the young their youth, mature, its tranquility and purse. Therefore, doing this or that choice, remove the "rose-colored glasses" soberly assessing their strength and capabilities.
Author: Veronica Stepanova (klin.psiholog)