The son can do without an apartment, but every self-respecting parent must provide living space for his daughter, I explain why so categorically.

It turns out that statistics obstinately say that some parents do not even think about the fact that How to give an apartment to your daughter after 18 years. Most people decide to make such a gift to their son at best. He is a family member and should support his family. My daughter is going to get married anyway, so why would she have a separate living space?



I must say that not everyone holds such views. But how do young girls see it? Do they feel disadvantaged compared to their brothers? Can there be any grudge or injustice at all? Let's try to figure it out together.

To begin, probably, it is necessary with the fact that many young girls are simply forced to recognize the authority of their husband just because he has his own housing. Think about it: there are lazy men and punchy women? Now, she can work two jobs, constantly learning something in parallel. He can be an excellent professional in his field.



While the spouse is neither fish nor meat. No career or desire to achieve anything. He has a roof over his head from his parents. That's it. Man is now king and god within these four walls. A woman should listen to it, clean it, wash it and all. Do not forget to bring money to the family. What other choice does she have?



In this regard, the following situation turns out: women constantly feel like strangers, not at their plate. This leads to quarrels, scandals and internal tensions. It’s no surprise that eventually she’ll just start looking for another man. Hidden or overt, it doesn't matter. Marriage ends, and a woman, alone or with a child, seeks a new home. What happens next is unknown.

In addition, there is also such a sensitive issue as relations with the family. Very often, against the background of ordinary envy, a sister can simply stop communicating with her brother. Well, he has his own living space, and I don't. How am I worse? You have to live with your parents for a while. Then comes the misunderstanding of generations.

An adult daughter for mom and dad is always a child. Therefore, she should come home early. Having a relationship in such conditions is a difficult thing. And also constant attention and help around the house. At 16, this is not unusual, but at 20, such a relationship begins to strain.



Here young girls are often looking for almost any counter-cross, just to move away from their parents and start living their lives. Unfortunately, the chances of a happy marriage in this case are quite small. People need to get used to each other first. Again, the results often leave much to be desired.

Therefore, many young women find no other way out than to go to another country and try to earn money there. Everyone needs their place in this world. Of course, they go where they pay more. Someone comes back with hard-earned money. Others come with nothing. Some people are still in a foreign country.



You can look at this from different angles, but if you believe the statistics, the situation is quite deplorable. Not only women, but men are leaving for good. There is an outflow of young people, and therefore promising specialists. The consequences for the country do not bode well. And the reason for everything is quite banal.



So adult parents and daughters should think about whether the apartment will help their princess in life. Of course, not every family can allocate enough money to buy at least a one-bedroom apartment with renovation. But many can help at least part of the required amount. Plus, the girl will have an incentive to independently earn and the desire to build a career. Definitely the pros outweigh the cons. It's worth thinking about.