I gave birth to triplets at 51, but everyone around me just condemned, do I have no right to be a happy mother because of my age?

The heroine of today's history have three childrenI am already a pretty mature woman. Natalia became a mother at 51, having overcome all the difficulties and hardships of life. I had to fight with both relatives and detractors from the Internet. Why not everyone liked the act of a new mother, read further in the article.



I've been trying to get pregnant for the last 10 years. The doctors only shrugged their hands, they say, you should have thought earlier when you were younger. Now we have to hope for a miracle and pray. And yes, I did believe. When you are abandoned by a loved one who wants to be a father and is not ready to wait, there is nothing left but faith.



Family and friends advised to accept and try to adopt a child. They reproached me with a huge amount of money wasted, as if they were earning it, not me. I tried to find solace on the Internet: I created my own blog on Instagram and found like-minded people. It turns out there are a lot of women with a problem similar to mine. I shared all my experiences on the blog. She told me how she was trying to get pregnant.

And then came across the story of Galina Shubenina, who gave birth to a child in 60 years. It inspired me so much that I decided to go all the way. Around the same time, I met Leonid. I fell in love like a girl, and he reciprocated me. When Lena found out that I was dreaming of a child, he said he would do everything possible to make me happy.



My family started pushing me again. They said I was ready to go to bed with the first person I met just to get pregnant. I was in a lot of pain, but I held on. Loyal subscribers supported, said that I am strong and will cope.

Miracles happen and a long-awaited miracle has happened. I got pregnant, and one of the ultrasounds told me I was going to have triplets. To be honest, I couldn't believe my ears. After all these years of trying to have three children, it was like magic. Lena burst into tears when she found out. I couldn't come to my senses for a long time. I started to fear I couldn't handle it. My family added fuel to the fire, saying I was crazy and that they could not help.



I already knew that. I only believed in myself and Lena. When I told him about the pregnancy, he asked me to sign. It was probably the most peaceful painting that could be. We came to the registry office, Leonid's mother and his brother. Nobody came from my side. The worst part is that even my mother doesn’t support me. She believes that I missed my chance and should not become a mother at such a mature age.

I'm 51 years old. Some people say it's time to babysit, but I have three kids. No one understood me, but I don't care. I gave birth to three perfectly healthy girls. Lena was present at the birth, courageously held my hand and said that I will cope with everything.



But now I'm coping with the never-ending flow of negativity online, because with the kids on my blog, there's a lot of haters. They judge me and say I don’t think about the future of my children. But I don't think so. I don’t know how many years I have left, but I will do my best to make sure my children grow up healthy and happy.

I hope someday people will stop judging each other for their choices. I'm sure none of my relatives or internet haters even tried to put themselves in my shoes. Sorry!

Life Wisdom: What does this story teach us? This story teaches us not to despair and not to stop going to our goal. Despite the condemnation of other people, Natalia did not doubt for a second that she would ever become pregnant. It is said that through difficult life trials, people become stronger. I am sure that the main character of the story succeeded.



Do you think a woman should give birth after 50?