Why our parents celebrate a golden wedding together, and our generation can not settle down

Times are changing, technology is moving forward, and the question of generational difference is still open. The older and younger generations are in constant misunderstanding, which negatively affects their relationship. However, this difference is not always viewed in a negative context. Very often, the younger generation looks at their parents and grandparents, sincerely considering themselves less successful. And it is not even in matters of career, but in matters of the heart.



Peels Younger Generation Divorce Popularity Eugenie has just come out from her best friend, Svetlana. It was a bitter heaviness after hours of shed tears on her shoulder. This was the second divorce of a friend, the marriage lasted only 2 years. "So little," thought Eugene. Everywhere you look, there are divorces.



She began to remember her acquaintances, celebrities and various occasions that she had once heard. Most of all, she was struck by couples who stayed together for more than 5 years and suddenly broke up for no reason. So the time was wasted? She remembered her parents. They married right after college and still live together. Grandparents have a similar situation. Of course, there were different periods in their relationship. But it never came to divorce.



The Peels are now all picky, or... They almost file for divorce. It never happened before. At least that's what Eugenie thought. She wasn't married. She, like many of her peers, thought it best not to rush into such matters. First you need to meet your man, get to know him better. And only after a certain time, you can think about the formal marriage.

With this strategy, it seems that there should be fewer divorces. After all, decisions made not in a hurry and without the influence of first love seem more promising. However, it does not always seem to work.



Why is it that the older generation, who were not afraid to go to the crown, seems more resilient? Maybe it's all about public condemnation of divorce? Or lack of resources for independent living? There is a reason why people just stay together.

Of course, not all marriages turn out to be happy, and it is very common to see couples who have been together for decades. But at the same time in their permanence there is some sacrifice and nobility. In spite of everything, they preserve the unit of society.



But, on the other hand, marriage is purely personal. Divorces have always been. The only question is popularity. It is not a shame to talk about a failed marriage, to admit a bad choice. Relationships are not only a goal and a well-being, but also a means of gaining experience for further and more successful relationships. After all, a person can show their true nature after a long time. And you never know what kind of husband or wife you really got.

Divorce is a sad event, but it always has a reason. So it is better to get divorced and learn a life lesson than to endure inconveniences for the sake of public approval.



Peels Evgenia almost had no doubt that Svetlana in a year will find a groom again. That's the kind of person she is, and that's normal. Evgenia takes a different position. She is ready to wait for her only one to live happily ever after. The issue of divorce has never arisen.

Do you think that young people get divorced too often? Is the younger generation really different from the previous generation? Is divorce a natural event in a person’s life?