Simple and logical principles of education in Jewish families

Raising a childParents dream that he grew up smart, organized, independent, purposeful. Dad and mom want their child to succeed and live a happy life. Therefore, in the process of education, they try to give only the best, using all the levers of influence, be it incentives, punishments or persuasion.

In this respect, Jewish parents hardly stand out. But they solve their problems in an unusual way for us – they adore their children and allow them a lot. But not all!

Today we will look at what is different. Jewish education. Perhaps we can uncover the secret of why Jewish children are the most brilliant and successful of all.





Jewish children

1. Don't create complexes.
   A Jewish mother firmly believes that her child has no flaws. A bad act here is considered not a sign of poor upbringing, but a single stupidity, the reasons for which need to be understood. None of the parents will talk about the shortcomings of the child, so as not to create complexes in his head.
   
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2. Give me freedom.
   In order for the child to grow up confident, Jewish parents give him complete freedom of action, limiting him to strict requirements. As the saying goes, “A child can do anything except what cannot be done.” In Jewish families, children are not scolded or shouted at. This is acceptable until they cross the line. So above all, respect for the elders. With all freedom, a child cannot cross this border and show disrespect for elders. And older parents here and do adore and take as a role model.
   
   
   
   
   
   
3. Praise for everything good.
   Parents always praise the child, and from birth. For any clumsy drawing, for a new mastered word or for the first awkward steps, the baby is awarded stormy congratulations. Jewish children get used to praise from an early age. Mom and Dad are not shy in public to praise the child for any small thing. Moreover, such praise among Jews is considered the norm.
   
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4. Teach responsibility and autonomy
   In Jewish families, children are unfamiliar with laziness. They are constantly busy with business: they learn to play the violin, learn a foreign language or go to other additional classes. They know how to value time, so they do not have time to hang out in the yards. They learn to be responsible for their words and actions.
   
   
   
   
5. Cultivate love in the family
   Jewish traditions make it clear that the basis of the family is the father and mother. Children from an early age see that the relationship between mom and dad is saturated with mutual respect, care and love. The child will feel confident and secure. And in his own family he will cultivate the same values.
   
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Jewish education and education They lay a powerful foundation, allowing children to become full-fledged and independent personalities. This system works perfectly for Jews. Perhaps this is because Jewish women always put home and family first, sacrificing their own dreams.

Please note that earlier we wrote about how to protect young children. I wonder why this is not taught in our schools.

Such simple and logical principles of education, but how often they are neglected by parents. And then, in old age, they lament that the children do not meet their expectations. The tips from this article can change a lot for the better, so share them with your friends.