How to Fill Grace with a Place to Sleep

Sometimes marriage is not what we imagined. There are new nuances of life together and new difficulties. This is natural, because we begin to live with another person, we must take into account his habits and live peacefully.





One of the charms of marriage is joint sleep, that's when we recognize the partner. When a person is used to sleeping alone, getting used to sharing a bed with another becomes a bit problematic. By the way, astrologers are sure that different signs of the zodiac need to sleep a different number of hours for a full rest.





Today's edition. "Site" I want to talk about an unusual habit of a couple. The family has been living together for 8 years, and of these, they sleep in separate beds for 7 years. The woman argues that their marriage has only become stronger.

A year after getting married in the middle of the night, I woke up alone in bed, remembering that I had fallen asleep with my husband. I got out of bed and found my lover sleeping on the couch in the next room. I asked him this morning why he was on the couch. And the husband replied that he could not sleep, they say, I turn in my sleep and sleep loudly.





“When the situation happened again, I decided I needed to talk. We realized we couldn't sleep together. Then my husband woke me up with his snoring, then we woke up because of the heat. In addition, our sleep schedules did not quite coincide: I could watch movies until one o’clock in the morning, and my husband went to bed 3 hours earlier. Together we were sleepless, irritable and tired.”





“We came to the conclusion that sleeping in separate beds was the solution. As a result, we stopped fighting and became more productive at work, and the husband gets up early and cooks us breakfast. Separate bed We do not sleep alone, no matter what our relatives and friends say. We are comfortable, that is the most important thing.”

Not everyone is ready to give up sleep in an embrace with a loved one, but insomnia can come not because of the fact that someone interferes with you. In any case, to cope with this problem, you can perform a few relaxing yoga asanas.





Interestingly, in ancient Rome, the marital bed was not intended for sleep, the couple slept in different chambers. Russian aristocrats had separate bedrooms, and peasants slept in different halves of the hut. The tradition of sleeping together dates back to the Industrial Revolution, when people moved to cities.





Psychologists say that often conflicts arise due to snoring and insomnia of partners or because of the uncomfortable temperature in the room. Although the problem can be solved by putting in the bedroom two-bedMany believe that this is the beginning of the end. Because of stereotypes, people lose their comfort.





At the end of the day, intimacy is determined not only by co-sleeping, but also by other things. For example, you can cook or walk together on weekends, go to exhibitions or movies, enjoy communication with each other during the day, and at night gain new strength to continue a happy marriage. What do you think of such an unconventional solution?