The poor man came to church and forgot to turn off his phone, he rang loudly while praying.

The truth is that one incident can ruin the overall impression. A person is such that he will look for a better place for himself, and the background already affects him. The problem of people's relationships It is constant and, at times, completely impenetrable. It depends on the people themselves how they deal with it. Before we start thinking, read this story.



We have an editorial. "Site" It seemed very revealing. Much of it becomes clear, as well as morality. You can joke about adults, but what about kids? They become hostages of this kind of attitude. How can their personality be formed in this case? Parenting? And life in general?

One man came to the temple to pray to God, but forgot to turn off his phone. During the service, someone called him and the priest scolded him for it. After the service, the parishioners also scolded him for ruining the service. Even his wife blamed him for being so inattentive. This man felt shame. After that, he never went to the temple again.



However, the same day he went to the pub. As he was still nervous and anxious, he spilled his drink. The waiter who served him apologized and handed him a napkin. The cleaner wiped the floor. The pub manager gave him a gift. drink At the expense of the house and at the same time said, they say, nothing terrible, mistakes happen to everyone. After this incident, a man went to this pub every evening.”

In this way, being deeply christened, believing people, one can turn another away from attending church. This situation can only be changed by your attitude. Even when people, consciously or not, make mistakes. What happened to this man? Who knows. Maybe he made another attempt to go to the temple and taught him that in his favorite pub.



We are surprised when our children grow up, to put it mildly, not the best guys. It seems to us that if we are theirs blameThey'll get better. Think about it, maybe at this very moment, one of the street nerds is praising him for getting into someone else's pocket, harassing someone, doing something immoral.

People find it difficult to accept criticism and shame. Especially when he doesn’t know what his mistake is. He doesn't think he did. nothingBut everyone around him turned against him. Including parents, who, it would seem, should have a protective and explanatory function.



And then they say they got into bad company. Where else would he go if the “right” people didn’t give him a chance to be in their circle? That's the kind of cozy hypocrisy you can always show. neglect. And the strange thing about this is that for restless souls, the pub becomes a bright place, but not the church. There's another parable to tell.

“One day a man came to the temple to pray, but they drove him out. He was not dressed like that, or for some other reason. Who knows now, people are always smart, they know best how to go to church properly. So, he sits at the gate, hurting him, crying. Suddenly he hears a voice:



- What happened, child? Why are you crying?
A man lifts his head and sees that Christ himself is before him. He was confused at first because the situation was completely stupid. But he said,
- Would you believe it, God? I'm not allowed in the temple!
To which Jesus smiled and said,
- It is not worth crying, they have not allowed me there for a long time.”

This does not mean that now you do not need to go to church, but only to look for yourself in a pub. It's also about humility. soul You have to think. A message for everyone. Whom in the temple was condemned, let him go there again, and who censured, let him take a useful lesson. Everyone makes mistakes. Write down what you think about this!



The problem of people's relationships It's in opinions. If you have a rather thick psychological skin, then you do not care! Read our article on how to stop devaluing people – useful information! Thank you for staying with us!