Why it's good to be a late child

The late birth of children causes a lot of controversy and misunderstanding from others. Since ancient times, humanity has been accustomed to obeying generally accepted norms. If a woman decides to become a mother after thirty or forty years, then she will feel uncomfortable. There is always someone who will be surprised and create tension in the team with the question: “Is it too late?” Before you get offended or enter into an argument, you should think about the most important thing - the child.



At the age of forty, parents demonstrate restraint and an adequate attitude to various stressful situations, relying on rich life experience. Children raised in this environment grow up calm and obedient.



The speech of adult parents, their facial expressions and movements are softer and not as noisy as those of young parents. Children adopt these traits and get used to this way of life. They begin to read, learn poetry, draw before their peers. This behavior can not but please parents, because the child demonstrates good awareness in many matters.



The second side of the coin is misunderstanding and in some cases condemnation from others. A child's friends may say something like "your grandmother came," without even knowing how embarrassing both the child and his mother are. Often you can observe a child on the playground or in a kindergarten in some isolation from the team.

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This is due to the rules of communication and the environment in which children grow up. In order for a child to be on the same wavelength with his peers, it is not enough to tell him: “Be more active, play with the guys.” We need to involve other people in communication and education. After all, the child may not even understand what they want from him, because he is used to a quiet, measured life with his parents. Older children, relatives from time to time communicating with the child, contribute to the formation of different traits in the behavior of the child.



No one knows what will happen to us and our loved ones in five or even ten years. But for some reason, young parents are sure that everything will be fine anyway. Many details in the upbringing of their children, they ignore, let go. Older parents can also be positive. They look at things more soberly and meaningfully.



The older the parents, the more they care about their child. They carefully consider all sorts of situations that may occur in the future: what they will look like, whether the child will withdraw from them, whether he will worry about the age of his parents.



It is good that parents will always take care of favorable conditions for their child. But it is also obvious that they are afraid and worried about how the child will perceive their difference from other parents at a conscious age.



Everyone has the right to choose how to live and when to have children. The age of the parents, of course, affects the upbringing of the child. But that doesn't mean that quality It gets worse or worse due to the age of the mother and father.

“The late child motivates and keeps himself in shape. I want to play basketball or badminton with him in a few years, and for this you need to be healthy yourself.



Relationship is the connection of emotions, words, willingness to support and listen at any moment. It is the ability to look at the situation from different angles. All factors are interrelated and form a model of the relationship with the child. It affects his outlook and connection with his mother and father. Does it matter? happiness From the age of loving parents?