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Wishes-Hochu and Desires-Nado
To desire or not to desire is the question.
To live your desires or not to be a slave to your desires?
In some books, authors write that you need to live as you want, not as you need to.
In other books it is said: Give up your desires, do not be their slave.
So where to run? In the direction of your desires or in the opposite direction? Which of these authors is right? Alla Ryzhkova writes specifically for econet.ru.
Can we wish? Are our true desires those of our “wants” that come out of our “needs”?
I want to become a lawyer because it’s the right thing to do (that’s what my parents want, which I don’t want to upset; lawyers make good money, and I want to be wealthy; it’s a respected profession, and I want to be respected).
But if you ask me what profession I would choose if I were free from anyone and independent of anything in my choice, but only if I could choose what my soul wants (my true desire, my real desire, my real desire), it would be...
Whatever it is, it would be just a WANT, no need, no explanation that starts with “because.”
How often can we not distinguish our real desire from our desire, because we have to.
There is only one exception for “Because What” (which will confirm the rule):
I love you because I love you (such are my feelings).
I want to do it because I want to (such are my feelings, my feelings)
Compare:
I love you because you are beautiful, smart, like my friends, etc.
I want to do it because it is necessary (prestige, money, parents will be proud of me, etc.)
Of course, the girl you love can be smart and beautiful; and the job you do is to make a lot of money and comfort your parents' self-esteem, but most importantly, why are you with this girl and at this job, BECAUSE YOU WANT IT?
You just can't do without this girl and this job. You get love, joy, pleasure from communicating with this person, and at work you feel like a creator and get high from the process itself, rather than looking at the clock with thoughts about when it will all end.
I don't know if it's right, but I think, When they say they want to escape from their desires, it is from those who are behind them.
Because if a person does not have his own desires, then he is either dead, or in a coma, or he has a severe disruption of the central nervous system, in which he can no longer desire or dream.
Because if a person does not have his own desires, there will always be those who will gladly impose theirs on him and will certainly explain very clearly and clearly how they are important, necessary, and simply necessary!
Remember the saying, “Be afraid of your desires because they may come true?”
What's the "because" of that saying? So what desires are you afraid of?
Author Alla Ryzhkova, especially for
P.S. And remember, just by changing your consciousness – together we change the world!
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To live your desires or not to be a slave to your desires?
In some books, authors write that you need to live as you want, not as you need to.
In other books it is said: Give up your desires, do not be their slave.
So where to run? In the direction of your desires or in the opposite direction? Which of these authors is right? Alla Ryzhkova writes specifically for econet.ru.
Can we wish? Are our true desires those of our “wants” that come out of our “needs”?
I want to become a lawyer because it’s the right thing to do (that’s what my parents want, which I don’t want to upset; lawyers make good money, and I want to be wealthy; it’s a respected profession, and I want to be respected).
But if you ask me what profession I would choose if I were free from anyone and independent of anything in my choice, but only if I could choose what my soul wants (my true desire, my real desire, my real desire), it would be...
Whatever it is, it would be just a WANT, no need, no explanation that starts with “because.”
How often can we not distinguish our real desire from our desire, because we have to.
There is only one exception for “Because What” (which will confirm the rule):
I love you because I love you (such are my feelings).
I want to do it because I want to (such are my feelings, my feelings)
Compare:
I love you because you are beautiful, smart, like my friends, etc.
I want to do it because it is necessary (prestige, money, parents will be proud of me, etc.)
Of course, the girl you love can be smart and beautiful; and the job you do is to make a lot of money and comfort your parents' self-esteem, but most importantly, why are you with this girl and at this job, BECAUSE YOU WANT IT?
You just can't do without this girl and this job. You get love, joy, pleasure from communicating with this person, and at work you feel like a creator and get high from the process itself, rather than looking at the clock with thoughts about when it will all end.
I don't know if it's right, but I think, When they say they want to escape from their desires, it is from those who are behind them.
Because if a person does not have his own desires, then he is either dead, or in a coma, or he has a severe disruption of the central nervous system, in which he can no longer desire or dream.
Because if a person does not have his own desires, there will always be those who will gladly impose theirs on him and will certainly explain very clearly and clearly how they are important, necessary, and simply necessary!
Remember the saying, “Be afraid of your desires because they may come true?”
What's the "because" of that saying? So what desires are you afraid of?
Author Alla Ryzhkova, especially for
P.S. And remember, just by changing your consciousness – together we change the world!
Source: /users/330161
