Love, but ready to go

I would not want to bring a common base... But it happens, often happens... a man greatly relaxes after a woman's "love". He sets a condition like this — "well, she is here to stay".

And in fact, in most cases, the woman is really not going away: fell in love with — and it stuck. From now on, what would the man do, no matter how cold and consumer it is not addressed, no matter how devalued and humiliated — he can do anything. "I love" justifies everything. And many men this a lesson well learned.

"Now is not the time", "you want too much", "you can not be so selfish", "our love is not for everyone, it is necessary to pass the test", "just wait" and so on.

Behind these phrases is hidden second meaning: "love become a victim". And the vast majority of women fall for it — waiting to suffer, explain, justify. Male virtual obstacles gives for the real and the woman is waiting for the sea weather, sometimes for years.

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And the time is always right. Right now is the right time for love and relationships. It is called "today". All the rest is illusion and fantasy. Future plans, prospects and promises — it is the hooks that experienced men throw to hold and that loving women across.

We all become dependent in love. Everything. There are no exceptions. But what distinguishes dependent from person healthy? Conditionally healthy person realizes that besides the relations, there are values of a higher order — for example, self-respect, dignity, the sense of its uniqueness, spiritual comfort.

If these internal sensations go, the story is not about love, but about something wounded and painful. The very "love" turns into "do me anything I can't live without you can."

 

 

Don't take ANYTHING from the losers!You, as you don't…

But "love" is life. I love you, but not give you my life. I love you, but I will not allow myself to kick and not to be considered. I'll do anything for you, but if you cease to be meaningful to you, I'll go. I will follow you to the edge of the world, but if me and my order will be place there. I'll be with you as long as you can see, appreciate and respect me till you love me. I love you and ever be with you, if that happens, you will be able to love another.

"I love, but ready to go" — it breaks all the usual patterns, usually dependent patterns of thinking and behavior.

"I love, but ready to go" — holds together stronger than any shackles and chains.  published 

 

Author: Lilia Ahremchik

 



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