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Principles of education from mom-millionaire
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Dani Johnson grew up in a poor family, at the age of 17 had a baby at 21 became homeless, and at 23 earned his first million. In March, a successful businesswoman, mother of five children and grandmother of several grandchildren, spoke about their principles of bringing up children.
"I travel to different countries to encourage parents to think and to avoid mistakes which for decades the parents did in the United States. Our children are the new generation, which has almost lost. Because they are used to getting everything they want in a child, and when they become adults, just sit on the Dole," said Johnson.
Four million five hundred seventeen thousand seven hundred eight
The goal should be from childhood
Wealthy people clearly understand what goals should be in front of their children. Yes, they educate future graduates of Harvard, future top managers, future doctors or presidents. Meanwhile, the average person bear and raise children with thought: and suddenly will carry?
"The family of my friends who owns a publishing house, the son did not want to learn and did not know what to do in life. Then the father took a radical decision and sent it back for a week to work in a homeless shelter without any tools. A week later, the teenager returned with a great desire to learn and participate in the family business," says Johnson.
Without TV and mobile phone
Who is the best friend of an ordinary child? Most likely, the TV, computer and mobile phone. Children of Denis Johnson received the first phone at the age of 16, their first computer was the old dad's computer, and a TV in the house at all.
"My kids can't afford a mobile phone, because I did not earn."
Cell phone teaches a person not to organize and not to plan their time, and the TV shows the wrong model of life.
Fifty eight million three hundred eighty seven thousand eight hundred nine
What can you learn from the cartoon about Sponge Bob?
"Lazy, dissolute, nihilistic little man happy about how he was duped by others. You would want your son to become such murzikami? Would such men for their daughters? If you do not watch television for 30 days from this dependence can be eliminated," says Johnson.
Teach your child to love work
Weekends are coming, and what do children hear? Thank God, Friday; we can take a break from THIS work; my boss is a pig; subordinates do not obey, and I hate my job.
"This position from childhood teaches mankind that the work is bad, difficult and unpleasant. Children so trained will not want to work or start their own businesses," says Dani Johnson.
In her family children from two years of doing simple chores around the house, and by 11 years their contribution is already quite significant.
According to Johnson, children pay for accommodation and food in the house. She does not use the services of a cook, maid or nanny with all the chores the family to cope on their own. You need to be able to do the job that he does not like or causes strain, because it develops character and will power. If you only do what you like, additional good person will not do it.
You are the ATM for the child
"I give my child $ 50 a year on shoes and buy four pairs of jeans. Any luxury shoes for the money can not buy, but if you want — or go and earn money, or wait for sales!"says Johnson, noting that the child must be provided with the most necessary, but special fantasies and desires, he must implement himself.
"The worst thing parents can do is to make money, to give children what they themselves lacked in childhood. When children grow up, they enter a world where can no longer afford to live the way I used to," — said the businesswoman.
Three million four hundred ninety two thousand five hundred fifty
Spend or save?
With the waste of money there are only two options: to buy unnecessary things (and provide a good education and travelling children, those businessmen who sell these things), or to teach children that money you can save, earn and invest. "How to motivate the child not to spend money where not needed?
In our house the rule is: accumulate $ 10, and I'll give you another 10. When the sum is collected, you can only buy things that allow you to grow and develop: a bike, a musical instrument, journey," says Johnson. And do not buy what others buy! Usually, this extra stuff that just takes up space.
About sex education — what then is corrected yearsSteve Biddulph: Most people are simply programmed to unhappiness
Teach your child generosity
Most of the successful people are characterized by emotional and material generosity. They are not jealous and very generous. Teach your child to respect, urges Johnson. Not by chance in the Bible does it say that 10% should donate: children in her family also give 10% of each dollar earned to orphans. 20% is left for entertainment, and the rest goes in the piggy Bank. For the future and implementation ideas. published
Source: uduba.com/1355818/printsipyi-vospitaniya-ot-mamyi-millionershi
"I travel to different countries to encourage parents to think and to avoid mistakes which for decades the parents did in the United States. Our children are the new generation, which has almost lost. Because they are used to getting everything they want in a child, and when they become adults, just sit on the Dole," said Johnson.
Four million five hundred seventeen thousand seven hundred eight
The goal should be from childhood
Wealthy people clearly understand what goals should be in front of their children. Yes, they educate future graduates of Harvard, future top managers, future doctors or presidents. Meanwhile, the average person bear and raise children with thought: and suddenly will carry?
"The family of my friends who owns a publishing house, the son did not want to learn and did not know what to do in life. Then the father took a radical decision and sent it back for a week to work in a homeless shelter without any tools. A week later, the teenager returned with a great desire to learn and participate in the family business," says Johnson.
Without TV and mobile phone
Who is the best friend of an ordinary child? Most likely, the TV, computer and mobile phone. Children of Denis Johnson received the first phone at the age of 16, their first computer was the old dad's computer, and a TV in the house at all.
"My kids can't afford a mobile phone, because I did not earn."
Cell phone teaches a person not to organize and not to plan their time, and the TV shows the wrong model of life.
Fifty eight million three hundred eighty seven thousand eight hundred nine
What can you learn from the cartoon about Sponge Bob?
"Lazy, dissolute, nihilistic little man happy about how he was duped by others. You would want your son to become such murzikami? Would such men for their daughters? If you do not watch television for 30 days from this dependence can be eliminated," says Johnson.
Teach your child to love work
Weekends are coming, and what do children hear? Thank God, Friday; we can take a break from THIS work; my boss is a pig; subordinates do not obey, and I hate my job.
"This position from childhood teaches mankind that the work is bad, difficult and unpleasant. Children so trained will not want to work or start their own businesses," says Dani Johnson.
In her family children from two years of doing simple chores around the house, and by 11 years their contribution is already quite significant.
According to Johnson, children pay for accommodation and food in the house. She does not use the services of a cook, maid or nanny with all the chores the family to cope on their own. You need to be able to do the job that he does not like or causes strain, because it develops character and will power. If you only do what you like, additional good person will not do it.
You are the ATM for the child
"I give my child $ 50 a year on shoes and buy four pairs of jeans. Any luxury shoes for the money can not buy, but if you want — or go and earn money, or wait for sales!"says Johnson, noting that the child must be provided with the most necessary, but special fantasies and desires, he must implement himself.
"The worst thing parents can do is to make money, to give children what they themselves lacked in childhood. When children grow up, they enter a world where can no longer afford to live the way I used to," — said the businesswoman.
Three million four hundred ninety two thousand five hundred fifty
Spend or save?
With the waste of money there are only two options: to buy unnecessary things (and provide a good education and travelling children, those businessmen who sell these things), or to teach children that money you can save, earn and invest. "How to motivate the child not to spend money where not needed?
In our house the rule is: accumulate $ 10, and I'll give you another 10. When the sum is collected, you can only buy things that allow you to grow and develop: a bike, a musical instrument, journey," says Johnson. And do not buy what others buy! Usually, this extra stuff that just takes up space.
About sex education — what then is corrected yearsSteve Biddulph: Most people are simply programmed to unhappiness
Teach your child generosity
Most of the successful people are characterized by emotional and material generosity. They are not jealous and very generous. Teach your child to respect, urges Johnson. Not by chance in the Bible does it say that 10% should donate: children in her family also give 10% of each dollar earned to orphans. 20% is left for entertainment, and the rest goes in the piggy Bank. For the future and implementation ideas. published
Source: uduba.com/1355818/printsipyi-vospitaniya-ot-mamyi-millionershi
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