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We all want our child to grow up happy and well-rounded. Often due to the huge number of worries and troubles we do not have time to pay proper attention to upbringing, waving a short "no" or "stop". Of course, the bans must be present in a child's life, but in moderation. After all, to know the world so important and necessary!
We all want our child to grow up happy and well-rounded. Often due to the huge number of worries and troubles we do not have time to pay proper attention to upbringing, waving a short "no" or "stop". Of course, the bans must be present in a child's life, but in moderation. After all, to know the world so important and necessary!
1. Their own
Of course, the parents much easier and cleaner to feed the child themselves. But to learn how to hold a spoon, to convey, without spilling and without dropping and finally send all this "stuff" in the mouth — requires unimaginable strength and patience that a child puts into this process voluntarily.
Forbidding to eat on their own, we stop at the root not only of the first lessons of concentration and perseverance, but the opportunity to feel great as mom and dad, to feel confidence — "I can do". Without loss can not do, but is stained blouse could compare with the efforts of the little hero?
2. To help you
How often some parents say to their children: "Put throw", "Put that down, drop", etc. and after a couple of years, they complain: "He doesn't want to do!". We don't want the baby delivered a bother, but the baby is important to feel needed. Note the enthusiasm with which he will pull out the Laundry from the washing machine, to water the flowers or wash your table.
More important to receive praise from parents and know that from him, too much depends. Always call the child help select the feasible duties, and often say that you can't handle.
3. Draw
Unfortunately, not all giving your young artist a run for the imagination. The standard excuses — get dirty, izrisuet walls, full of chemistry. All of this can be minimized if you buy non-toxic paint or provide the opportunity to draw in the bathroom washable finger paints.
Creativity — especially painting — is not just imagination, it's a splash of emotions in the most correct form, knowledge of things and a reflection of the inner feelings of the kid. Draw together and solve their child through his drawings.
4. To Express their opinion
It would seem that today we are all quite literate and understand that my child is a complete person with thoughts, desires, and whims. But sometimes in the rush of emotions in us still sees — "what you know", "I know better what you need", "because I said so."
Firstly, not the fact that we are right in their beliefs, and secondly, remember that this is not an argument. Talk to him on equal terms, do not be lazy to explain and to communicate, listen to your kid and see how quickly you will be on the same wavelength.
5. Run, scream, jump house
In other words, to actively Express their emotions. For a child this kind of game and a way to relax, burn off excess energy, especially if we are talking about moving and temperamental children. Of course, to explain and need to educate, but it should work in the community, on the street, in hospital or in kindergarten.
Don't try to redo your child and allow him to be home as he is. Remember your childhood and try to beep together with a son or daughter — a fun evening you provided.
6. Climbing the slides at the Playground
Perhaps it is impossible to go past the Playground and did not hear these words: "fall", "hit", "dirty", "don't go", "slow down", "don't jump". First, never tell your child to hand, and secondly, think that it is much easier to teach him to climb the stairs, slide down slides and hanging on the rings than to stop.
In children is still strong, the spirit of knowledge horizontally and vertically, they are not afraid of anything, and, unlike their aging parents, full of energy and strength. Believe me, sooner or later your baby will choose the moment and still climb up to the forbidden shell. Isn't it better to prevent an unpleasant outcome? Besides clever and "easy" child is always easier to adapt to life.
7. Watch cartoons
Modern TV is poor, it is a fact. But for a child it is very important to be aware of what they are talking about peers. Pick a good and informative cartoons that you think are reasonable and see them together.
Source: www.ecology.md
We all want our child to grow up happy and well-rounded. Often due to the huge number of worries and troubles we do not have time to pay proper attention to upbringing, waving a short "no" or "stop". Of course, the bans must be present in a child's life, but in moderation. After all, to know the world so important and necessary!
1. Their own
Of course, the parents much easier and cleaner to feed the child themselves. But to learn how to hold a spoon, to convey, without spilling and without dropping and finally send all this "stuff" in the mouth — requires unimaginable strength and patience that a child puts into this process voluntarily.
Forbidding to eat on their own, we stop at the root not only of the first lessons of concentration and perseverance, but the opportunity to feel great as mom and dad, to feel confidence — "I can do". Without loss can not do, but is stained blouse could compare with the efforts of the little hero?
2. To help you
How often some parents say to their children: "Put throw", "Put that down, drop", etc. and after a couple of years, they complain: "He doesn't want to do!". We don't want the baby delivered a bother, but the baby is important to feel needed. Note the enthusiasm with which he will pull out the Laundry from the washing machine, to water the flowers or wash your table.
More important to receive praise from parents and know that from him, too much depends. Always call the child help select the feasible duties, and often say that you can't handle.
3. Draw
Unfortunately, not all giving your young artist a run for the imagination. The standard excuses — get dirty, izrisuet walls, full of chemistry. All of this can be minimized if you buy non-toxic paint or provide the opportunity to draw in the bathroom washable finger paints.
Creativity — especially painting — is not just imagination, it's a splash of emotions in the most correct form, knowledge of things and a reflection of the inner feelings of the kid. Draw together and solve their child through his drawings.
4. To Express their opinion
It would seem that today we are all quite literate and understand that my child is a complete person with thoughts, desires, and whims. But sometimes in the rush of emotions in us still sees — "what you know", "I know better what you need", "because I said so."
Firstly, not the fact that we are right in their beliefs, and secondly, remember that this is not an argument. Talk to him on equal terms, do not be lazy to explain and to communicate, listen to your kid and see how quickly you will be on the same wavelength.
5. Run, scream, jump house
In other words, to actively Express their emotions. For a child this kind of game and a way to relax, burn off excess energy, especially if we are talking about moving and temperamental children. Of course, to explain and need to educate, but it should work in the community, on the street, in hospital or in kindergarten.
Don't try to redo your child and allow him to be home as he is. Remember your childhood and try to beep together with a son or daughter — a fun evening you provided.
6. Climbing the slides at the Playground
Perhaps it is impossible to go past the Playground and did not hear these words: "fall", "hit", "dirty", "don't go", "slow down", "don't jump". First, never tell your child to hand, and secondly, think that it is much easier to teach him to climb the stairs, slide down slides and hanging on the rings than to stop.
In children is still strong, the spirit of knowledge horizontally and vertically, they are not afraid of anything, and, unlike their aging parents, full of energy and strength. Believe me, sooner or later your baby will choose the moment and still climb up to the forbidden shell. Isn't it better to prevent an unpleasant outcome? Besides clever and "easy" child is always easier to adapt to life.
7. Watch cartoons
Modern TV is poor, it is a fact. But for a child it is very important to be aware of what they are talking about peers. Pick a good and informative cartoons that you think are reasonable and see them together.
Source: www.ecology.md
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