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5 reasons to thank the guy who broke your heart
Probably not in the world a single person who didn't break your heart. But you know, it makes us stronger. Of course, when your heart is broken, nobody thinks that. The pain of parting kills all feelings, causing a desire to go back to the moment, as there was a gap. To back all that was good between both.
But life goes on, and eventually feelings of regret and hatred go. Becomes easier. And better. And you can even thank the one without whom life previously not thought, for lived experience. Broken heart — the experience of the difficult, but necessary. We are growing. We learn to survive. But it also means that life goes on.
Sometimes we're so focused on grief and loneliness, without which hard times can not do, that we forget to say thank you for what are: better, stronger, more confident.
Here are 5 reasons to be grateful to those who hurt.
1. For the lesson that life goes on
When the heart is in a million pieces by someone you trusted, the world is crumbling. Everything freezes, you are immersed in darkness and loneliness. Days, months, even years, and you realize that the time is not standing still. You go to sleep, Wake up — it's a new day. With each passing day you're beginning to become what I was before I met a man who gave his heart to.
A broken heart teaches us that life must not stop just because you're in pain. Your friends stayed with you, your family is always there for you. But there is still so much waiting for various days.
2. Because you become stronger
Broken heart — emotional state, but we feel it physically. Agree? It seems that someone actually ripped our heart out and smashed it against the wall. Inside you feel hollow, and it is entirely surrounded by the reminder of how happy you were. It is a kind of weakness that takes hold of you completely. As if the darkness swallowed you and you don't see a way out. Then something changes, and the output is itself. And this magical, wonderful moment you realize you're a damn strong person. One person can not destroy you. You are strong enough to take all that bitterness and deal with it.
3. For the lesson, you'll meet the love of your life
What hurts the most when your heart is broken? The feeling of being left “one” person. The realization that from the hands slipped away what is sung in the songs, than making a movie. And the fear that never again this will not be. You least expect that you will meet someone else. But it happens. And then you realize that while they believed that man was “the one” was another man that was waiting for you somewhere in life, and that he is now “the one”.
4. Because your bracket is higher
Love is patience. Love — kindness. Love is absolutely blind. So blind that you can close your eyes to the infidelity, the scandals, the insults — it's all out of love. Love can be so blind, everything plunges into darkness. But when you no longer love a person, you see. You see your relationship exactly as they were in reality. Not necessarily that you cheated on you or humiliated, but becomes more visible, then this relationship is not enough.
Now you know exactly what you deserve. You learned that. And even at this time, your “love vision” will not let you down.
5. For the time you spent together
A broken heart is the result of true love. It's hard to accept, especially when the soul is still wracked by pain and sorrow. But when emotions subside and the pain will lessen, the love will become so distant to you that it would be difficult to believe in its reality. It's like an unpleasant dream, you sometimes remember for no apparent reason.
But all this was. Is the person who broke your heart. For that he thanks. published
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But life goes on, and eventually feelings of regret and hatred go. Becomes easier. And better. And you can even thank the one without whom life previously not thought, for lived experience. Broken heart — the experience of the difficult, but necessary. We are growing. We learn to survive. But it also means that life goes on.
Sometimes we're so focused on grief and loneliness, without which hard times can not do, that we forget to say thank you for what are: better, stronger, more confident.
Here are 5 reasons to be grateful to those who hurt.
1. For the lesson that life goes on
When the heart is in a million pieces by someone you trusted, the world is crumbling. Everything freezes, you are immersed in darkness and loneliness. Days, months, even years, and you realize that the time is not standing still. You go to sleep, Wake up — it's a new day. With each passing day you're beginning to become what I was before I met a man who gave his heart to.
A broken heart teaches us that life must not stop just because you're in pain. Your friends stayed with you, your family is always there for you. But there is still so much waiting for various days.
2. Because you become stronger
Broken heart — emotional state, but we feel it physically. Agree? It seems that someone actually ripped our heart out and smashed it against the wall. Inside you feel hollow, and it is entirely surrounded by the reminder of how happy you were. It is a kind of weakness that takes hold of you completely. As if the darkness swallowed you and you don't see a way out. Then something changes, and the output is itself. And this magical, wonderful moment you realize you're a damn strong person. One person can not destroy you. You are strong enough to take all that bitterness and deal with it.
3. For the lesson, you'll meet the love of your life
What hurts the most when your heart is broken? The feeling of being left “one” person. The realization that from the hands slipped away what is sung in the songs, than making a movie. And the fear that never again this will not be. You least expect that you will meet someone else. But it happens. And then you realize that while they believed that man was “the one” was another man that was waiting for you somewhere in life, and that he is now “the one”.
4. Because your bracket is higher
Love is patience. Love — kindness. Love is absolutely blind. So blind that you can close your eyes to the infidelity, the scandals, the insults — it's all out of love. Love can be so blind, everything plunges into darkness. But when you no longer love a person, you see. You see your relationship exactly as they were in reality. Not necessarily that you cheated on you or humiliated, but becomes more visible, then this relationship is not enough.
Now you know exactly what you deserve. You learned that. And even at this time, your “love vision” will not let you down.
5. For the time you spent together
A broken heart is the result of true love. It's hard to accept, especially when the soul is still wracked by pain and sorrow. But when emotions subside and the pain will lessen, the love will become so distant to you that it would be difficult to believe in its reality. It's like an unpleasant dream, you sometimes remember for no apparent reason.
But all this was. Is the person who broke your heart. For that he thanks. published
P. S. And remember, only by changing their consumption — together we change the world! © Join us at Facebook , Vkontakte, Odnoklassniki
Source: marketium.ru/5-prichin-poblagodarit/
