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It is known that the formation of habits takes 21 days. Only 21 day to follow his self-discipline... It's not much. And the results may surprise you.
If you do not have your children, you can apply this article to work with your inner child — it can be very helpful. "It's never too late to have a happy childhood". Wayne Divers
And, of course, the Council and the Board that they can use, but you can not use it, depending on the context of the situation. The choice is yours.
1. Tell your child how much you love him. Do this as often as possible.
2. Regularly praise your child. Even a small reason is enough for praise. Thus, you will instill in the child a sense of self-esteem and make him a confident person.
3. Take your child for what he is, and do not put any conditions. Don't criticize him and condemn not, and nothing to reproach. Smile as often as possible, and he will understand that you are happy to see him.
4. Let your child know you're proud of it. Children love it very much.
5. Always treat him as an equal. Talking with the child, "be on his level", come and sit down so he could look you in the eye.
6. Appreciate everything that makes your child, and thank him for everything. Just hearing the words of gratitude, he will feel really important. Don't be afraid to say "thank you" several times.
7. Do not criticize the child for what he can't change. If he made a mistake in the past, discuss it, help him to make the right conclusion and forget about it.
8. Never berate the child. Don't make him feel guilty that he was not satisfied to what extent your expectations. The child's task is not to do what you want, and to realize their potential, and you should try him best to help.
9. Listen carefully to what the child tells you. Don't forget to ask his opinion on the matter. This will help him to feel important.
10. Admire all your child's achievements — no matter how large or small.
11. Praise your child for every achievement. This will increase self-esteem, because compliments loved by both adults and children.
12. All the time tell the kids that you love them. You will never overdo it, talking about love to his children and his wife (or husband).
13. Expect from the child only the best, believe in him. Always tell him, "I have full confidence in you," "I think you'll be fine".
14. Give children their full attention. If a child wants to talk to you, set aside all the things and give him as much time as you need. Don't worry about anything else, listen to it as if it were the most important person in the world.
15. Do not force your child to do anything by force. Discuss any business and achieve the desire to perform it. Do not use the power of the adult. Swearing and threats to intimidate or annoy the child. Instead, talk to him on equal terms and try to explain how important is the implementation of a case.
16. Talk with your child as if he is an adult and Mature man, even if he's just a kid. Always be open and honest. And then he will follow you and will strive to become the same.
17. Always ask his opinion on these important issues. Ask what he'd wanted to for dinner. Ask where he would like to spend the holidays. Let he since the childhood start to make decisions.
18. Talk about your work, what you do what you do. Counsel with him. Sometimes the child may offer such an original and fresh idea, which you would never have thought of yourself.
19. Give your child gifts. If you can't see him today, write a note or call. The child must be sure that you always remember about him.
20. Do not hold back their emotions. Let the child feel that always love him 100%.
See also: under-loved child How to stand up for yourself: 9 things you need to tell the child
21. Demonstrate to your wife or husband love and respect in the presence of a child. It will build your relationships with the opposite sex based on what I saw in the family.
If the house is full of peace and harmony, the child will be calm and confident, and when he grows up, he will be a strong, harmoniously developed personality and will be able to form a long, happy relationship.published
P. S. And remember, only by changing their consumption — together we change the world! ©
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If you do not have your children, you can apply this article to work with your inner child — it can be very helpful. "It's never too late to have a happy childhood". Wayne Divers
And, of course, the Council and the Board that they can use, but you can not use it, depending on the context of the situation. The choice is yours.
1. Tell your child how much you love him. Do this as often as possible.
2. Regularly praise your child. Even a small reason is enough for praise. Thus, you will instill in the child a sense of self-esteem and make him a confident person.
3. Take your child for what he is, and do not put any conditions. Don't criticize him and condemn not, and nothing to reproach. Smile as often as possible, and he will understand that you are happy to see him.
4. Let your child know you're proud of it. Children love it very much.
5. Always treat him as an equal. Talking with the child, "be on his level", come and sit down so he could look you in the eye.
6. Appreciate everything that makes your child, and thank him for everything. Just hearing the words of gratitude, he will feel really important. Don't be afraid to say "thank you" several times.
7. Do not criticize the child for what he can't change. If he made a mistake in the past, discuss it, help him to make the right conclusion and forget about it.
8. Never berate the child. Don't make him feel guilty that he was not satisfied to what extent your expectations. The child's task is not to do what you want, and to realize their potential, and you should try him best to help.
9. Listen carefully to what the child tells you. Don't forget to ask his opinion on the matter. This will help him to feel important.
10. Admire all your child's achievements — no matter how large or small.
11. Praise your child for every achievement. This will increase self-esteem, because compliments loved by both adults and children.
12. All the time tell the kids that you love them. You will never overdo it, talking about love to his children and his wife (or husband).
13. Expect from the child only the best, believe in him. Always tell him, "I have full confidence in you," "I think you'll be fine".
14. Give children their full attention. If a child wants to talk to you, set aside all the things and give him as much time as you need. Don't worry about anything else, listen to it as if it were the most important person in the world.
15. Do not force your child to do anything by force. Discuss any business and achieve the desire to perform it. Do not use the power of the adult. Swearing and threats to intimidate or annoy the child. Instead, talk to him on equal terms and try to explain how important is the implementation of a case.
16. Talk with your child as if he is an adult and Mature man, even if he's just a kid. Always be open and honest. And then he will follow you and will strive to become the same.
17. Always ask his opinion on these important issues. Ask what he'd wanted to for dinner. Ask where he would like to spend the holidays. Let he since the childhood start to make decisions.
18. Talk about your work, what you do what you do. Counsel with him. Sometimes the child may offer such an original and fresh idea, which you would never have thought of yourself.
19. Give your child gifts. If you can't see him today, write a note or call. The child must be sure that you always remember about him.
20. Do not hold back their emotions. Let the child feel that always love him 100%.
See also: under-loved child How to stand up for yourself: 9 things you need to tell the child
21. Demonstrate to your wife or husband love and respect in the presence of a child. It will build your relationships with the opposite sex based on what I saw in the family.
If the house is full of peace and harmony, the child will be calm and confident, and when he grows up, he will be a strong, harmoniously developed personality and will be able to form a long, happy relationship.published
P. S. And remember, only by changing their consumption — together we change the world! ©
Join us in Facebook , Vkontakte, Odnoklassniki
Source: vk.com/brain_up?w=wall-70427221_21617
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