The art of listening is the best way to learn to speak

The one who listens only to himself, who values only his own opinion and revels in the sound of his own voice, who do not attach importance to the existence of other people and uses them only as a screen to reflect his words — he will never be able to hold a conversation with another person, nor to engage with him is simple, good relations.

You should be able to listen. It does not need to become silent and withdrawn, and you need to actively use the miraculous ability given by the ability to listen, to respect someone before us who is looking for companionship just like we do.





To be able to listen means to be able to relate with something your thoughts so that we can check how they are significant.

To be able to listen is an art.

The art of being attentive; to appreciate what we tell others, to understand why they tell us it is; as carefully and clearly read the eyes of the interlocutor, silently to help him gestures, facial expression that testify of our living participation in the dialogue.




 

 

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To be able to listen means to be able to join in the conversation at the right time, without interrupting the interlocutor rudely and without missing a deaf ear to his words; to answer what he said to weave the thread of the conversation intelligently — so that the conversation makes sense, that is, a beginning, middle and end.

To be able to listen means to understand and to be understood.

Someone who can carry on a conversation, skillfully alternating his remarks with the statements of others, who listens to others as well as himself, and even carefully — he knows how every minute of life and in every corner to collect real treasure. The ability to listen develops observation, patience, respect for others and the ability to think.

To be able to listen is the best way to learn to speak.published

 

Author: Delia Steinberg Guzman

 

P. S. And remember, just changing your mind — together we change the world! ©

Source: www.manwb.ru/articles/psychology/inner_world/art_hear/