3 obsolete myth of family life, in which all still believe

When a person do not understand something, but to explain it somehow still not, a person creates a myth. Myth - replacement of information and knowledge imagination and fantasy. Moreover, the basis of his - own impressions and fragmentary experience. < Website


Jofo.ru Myth №1 The main thing - love; everything else - self-will »
. What could be more beautiful than love? But why break up marriages and families are destroyed by the shortest time based solely on feelings of love? Probably the most important is not only love, which is sometimes like a flash, and just as quickly disappear, but also the ability of mutual loving people, the spouses keep it, constantly updating; the ability to see the prospects for its growth and to create appropriate conditions for love.

If you rely only on love, you can lose the independence first, and then love itself.
But apparently not everyone love moves to the next stage and to take an active and creative and constructive, creative form

Myth №2. "Endure - slyubitsya" or "the main thing - to develop the habit of marriage partner and to family life, and love will arise later »
. Myth appeared more as a psychological defense in a marriage of convenience even in ancient times. Tolerance was regarded as a virtue, and often on it kept the marriage. Modern wife no longer want to "tolerate", but many of them still can not and are not able to keep the family together.

However, marriages netting that love will come later, not uncommon in our time. Usually this happens when people feel that they fit together. Expectations are justified if the spouses reciprocated in their quest, caring, attentive and helpful to each other,
. myth №3 «Family worries distract from your favorite activities impede professional growth»
. But hampered not care, and all that lets create a happy family and interesting, attractive, happy family life.
From the book "Help the young family", 1987, Moscow

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