If you do not want to hurt your child, you should read it. Wise words ...

The Indian concept of karma is now known to all and sundry. This philosophical concept has found a place in the hearts of billions, and its counterparts in one form or another, there are, perhaps, in every religion of the world. No mystical overtones karma becomes a basic principle of existence - you get something that directed their efforts, no more and no less. Unfortunately, people often do not think about where to lead their chosen path. And then such negligence becomes fatal - not only for them but also for those who are associated with them. The first victims of incorrectly selected adult direction in life almost always get their children. "Children - Karma parents" - so named his recent article on the subject writer Denis Zakharov, and his phrase went straight into the bullseye.

The child - the continuation of the parent, but only a few disputes. It depends on you, how he grows up, what will be guided in life that love and what to hate. However, a child - not a toy, not a soulless robot, blindly executing the program. He - a man, the same as you and I, with its thoughts and desires. Unfortunately, many parents forget about it.

Here we have a pair of outwardly exemplary. They look great, always sparkling smiles, their photos on social networks simply did exude a positive, their house is clean and cozy. In the very same family - the constant scandals and disassembly, eternal cries, violent quarrels and no less violent reconciliation in the evening. And here they are born blind child. Believing in karma people would say that such injury kid - a sign urging parents "see the light", to see the problems of their families and to give, finally, all this attention. And yet this man is absolutely right!

The above and, alas, absolutely real case, fortunately, unique. But the simpler examples around us at least a dime a dozen. This is a family where both parents are "burned" at work until the child barely tries to keep an eye on old grandmother, and lone break on children endless stress, and always busy careerists who sincerely believe that the money will replace their kids and dad, and mom. All they have in common one thing - sort out the problem in front of them they are not thinking. The most obvious option - not the most faithful. They did not bother to look at the root of the problem and trying to eliminate its external symptoms in the hope that it will go all the way. And then, having received a natural result of their efforts, filled with beluga - but how is it that all my life, all the powers invested in the child, and it is ... Attach something he can, and has invested, but not as it should have been!



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Always listen to what the child is trying to tell you, consciously or not. Listen, draw conclusions, and work on them. Diseases disobedience, problems at school - all this can be a sign of destiny, a sign indicating that you have moved in the wrong direction. Children are very much can teach their parents, often - just by their existence. Those who snort, they say, the chicken eggs are not taught, just painted in their own narrow-mindedness. A good teacher will always find something to learn from the student. A father and mother for the child should not only be good teachers, and the best! All of life is given to us to learn, to think, to comprehend the world, not escape, fall out tongue on one side and waving to them from the counter-cross. And ignore the lessons from those who have not only the closest to us in this world, but, in a sense, a part of ourselves - a crime!

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