"Never with anyone not argue, better a manicure." Wise article about how to live without pain.

Once everyone comes a turning point when he lost everything, all alone with his hands standing on a crossroads, not knowing where to go on and not knowing that this is the most difficult time of his life, he is on the verge of something new. After all, every finish - it is, in fact, start. Erich Maria Remarque wrote: "Free the only one who lost everything." Sounds a little absurd, is not it? But only a man who has remained virtually with nothing, can comprehend the essence of the message. At such moments, you drown in doubt, it is necessary to find reliable support and strong spiritual core.

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Once you realize that there was one. In fact, you were always alone, but this understanding is usually delayed. Parents die, changed husbands, lovers change, kids grow up. Or do you leave itself from the people, because they are now strangers. It breaks down what worked yesterday. No matter what happens, remember that loneliness is always behind like winter. Maturity - is the ability to be alone, not dramatizing. Preparing in advance is better, I'll tell you how:

1. All except close relatives, can be replaced. No one and nothing happens in a single instance. To let new people into your life, even if you do not understand yet, do you have in common. Once you realize that there was one, and it will save you.



2. Always try new:
3. Forgive everyone can forget the rest. Oblivion - the best punishment, and the best medicine. And never with anyone not argue, better a manicure.

4. There's no hurry. All that is fast, short-lived. If you really want something - do. If got sick, so it was not necessary. Wildcats postpone desires and actions, giving them a "lie down." Do something, what you're not sure, but if the desire haunts you for a long time.

5. if you really want something and you think it right, do it.


6. Do not give up until something you want. Good luck - it's an experience, that is, the number of repetitions. Any failure - lack of experience and experience is compensated. Courage and risk - it is an experience. What sometimes looks like utter audacity - it is an experience. Resistance, tolerance, forgiveness, stability and independence - all this experience. The main thing - do not give up until something you want.



7. Nothing is the end, even the end:


8. Nothing will end, but the end is near. and it is useful to think he - tomorrow. Then it is easier to follow all these points.

9. Do what you want, but take care of my body,
10. Romance, love and passion - that's fine.

11. The last thing to worry - that people think about you. People think mostly about themselves and about you, meryaya own. That is, they do not think any of you, or each other.



12. Fear of confidence. Confidence - early senility. I doubt allowed other options are left open escape routes themselves and others. I doubt at every point which I have written. But this very second, perhaps, leave everything as it is. One day I was left alone to check, I will save you all this.

PS Take care of your friends.
You must always be ready for any situation. Remember, after a heavy rain always comes the sun. It's the law of nature. Any crisis - it is an opportunity to start his life anew, to bring to her wildest dreams and become stronger. And well, when even in the moments of solitude around you are people close to the heart. Share this incredibly severe psychological article with your friends, who are now in a difficult position.

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